How do i suggest becoming polyamorous to my husband?

My husband won't have sex with me anymore. I've tried to fix it for months and months but nothing works. He finally just said deal with it yourself...he can't be bothered. Intimacy is pretty much dead and at this point he feels like my roommate.

I'm considering asking him if we can open the relationship to other people and become polyamorous, but I don't know how to talk about something like that since I've never been in this situation before. I don't want to go behind his back, but I don't want to feel alone and unwanted like this anymore.

And no, divorce is not an option.

How do I approach this?

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  • CozmoWank

    I guess you could just say " Since you no longer want to have sex with me how would you feel about me having sex with other people?".

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    • Track0011

      This all the way, there's no need to eat your brains out

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      • CozmoWank

        Or she could say "I'm not a vegetarian, I need some MEAT!!!".

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  • trexagireve

    Don't ask for anything just go out there and fuck other guys, and maybe talk about him for the great feeling to have your pussy stretched and filed with cum from real men!!

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  • curious-bunny

    Yea what the first person said, judt kinda be straight up about it. My boyfriend so far has showed no interest in fucking me yet, weve been living together fpr 3 months dating 8 and known for like 13 months, all he ever wants tp do is eat me out finger me amd spank me, the spanking is the only thing that gives me any pleasure and its hard to not get flirtatious with some of the cute interested guys at work. Like dammit im only 20 i want to enjoy it while i got it but hes such a butt

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