How do i stop being jealous?

I really need help because I am too jealous of my best friend whenever she hangs out with her boyfriend (i'm single, f).

is it normal to feel that jealous?
are people more normal than me and i'm just the only one who gets jealous? i dont want her any harm but i envy her.

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Based on 35 votes (29 yes)
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  • thegypsysailor

    Self confidence is the key to solving that problem.
    Envy and jealousy are not attractive qualities in a person, so you are most likely creating a catch 22 for yourself.
    Be happy your friend is happy and support her at all times. These good feelings will show to others and before you know it, you will have a bf of your own.

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  • peterr

    Don't be jealous. Ask her if you can fuck her boyfriend.

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    • No, just no!

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      • peterr

        Maybe you should do me, then. I will look after you forever.

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  • CreativeThinker

    Be my girlfriend thats the only solution....

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  • ibreathelectric

    Yeah, it's definitely normal, but you should never act jealous to your friend. I'm that friend who's had the boyfriend for years and my friends literally can't handle it and act really nasty about it. Don't be THAT friend, or else you'll lose the one you've got.

    Don't worry. You'll find someone soon enough!

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  • RoseIsabella

    Stop comparing yourself to your friend.

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  • Anime7

    Try to be happy for your friend. I get where you're coming from, I'm a lonely guy and my best friend has been with his girlfriend for like 4 years. Actually I'm the only single guy in my group of friends, so yeah I know how it feels. The best thing to do is to just be happy for them and have hope. Have hope that maybe it will happen to you one day. But in the meantime just be there for your friend and try not to dwell on your current relationship status.

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