How do i make my hubby forget his dead wife,

My Husband is a nice person, he provides me with everything, but at times he remembers his moments with his first wife whos dead.then he says he hates her as she commit suicide, i dint interrupt in first but now i feel bad about it, i feel does he really loves me, he tells me he's crazy about me, then how should make him forget his past.

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Comments ( 7 )
  • chettaguuurrl

    You can't make him forget

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  • suckonthis9

    Be supportive. This obviously was a traumatic event in his life. Rather than trying to make him forget about his first wife, perhaps you can help him to remember the better times they spent together and to be supportive of this.

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  • rin

    I agree ^ He's never going to forget and the way she died probably left him confused and angry. Be supportive, he does love you.

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  • joybird

    His ex wife is not a rival to you, he's just deeply hurt.

    I think it's great that he trusts you with his deepest thoughts and doesn't bottle it up the way most men do - all deep and broody!

    You could try to distract him when he starts feeling angry about her!

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  • coolio75650932

    dont even try to make him forget. he misses her with all his heart. if you try to make him forget then that makes you an official jealous bitchy cunt.

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    • Ellenna

      How long ago did his wife die? I imagine it would take quite a while to get over something like that and if he's only mentioning it occasionally, just listen and be supportive.

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  • DolphinAngel

    He'll never forget but lots of alcohol might make it better =P

    No really show him you are there to help him getting over that and show him your love!

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