How do i love?

is it a problem that i dont know how to love.
i just dont know if i say it i really dont mean it ive been with alot of girls but i was forced to pretty much say it they would say tell me you love me not in a demanding way though, so you know i would say it. i just dont know how to love ive liked some of the girls alot but im not sure it was love.

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Comments ( 14 )
  • ilikeexspiredmilk

    its not love till you get a hand job

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  • Starofhisheart

    A lot of people, guys especially, think they have to have a girl friend before they graduate high school or w/e (I am assuming you are in high school) but trust me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for three years, and he never felt serious about anyone until me, and we meet in college. One day you will meet the person of your dreams, you will get butterflies and feel like you just sky rocketed to a whole new world. A lot of girls rush things and ruin things by trying to force you to love them, but just remember its ok to not feel love instantly. Love starts off as a small little seed in your heart and it blossoms with time. You just have to nourish it.

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  • a person person should know and have the ability to love after 14 for guys and 11 for girls.
    i dont think you have meet the right person yet. dont worry it will unexpectedly and its not something u can start its something u can grow

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  • shadowkin101

    this guy above me may have a point do you prefer the attention off men like i used to wen i was 8 but now im straight and married

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  • n2645t

    Dont warry man!! love is all around! Have in mind if you dont enjoy the femail company you might whana change it around! maybe you are gay!! no offence but you never know!

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  • rainmay

    idk; when u show love to different people, the way you love is always different.

    like if you love God
    or love your girlfriend
    or love a baby
    or your parents
    etc, it always changes

    but loving... just give it our best shot and try to love. there is a saying that goes "it is easier to hate than love."

    one way to try to love is accept. accept what you can, and care for others and yourself

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  • Argollun

    Love is a verb, you do it. If you like a person and want them to be happy, try and make them happy. Try talking to a counselor.

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  • weepingwillow

    don't listen to guy above me! i mean he likes expired milk for crying out loud!!

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  • combatgal856

    You know when you're in love, and when you say it but you don't feel it or say it because you do not mean it then you are not in love.

    There will be someone who will probably take you through love. It will come naturally i guess

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  • Confusedgirl

    Youve never experienced love, yes your feelings for others were true, but if you were in love youd be so happy & blinded by it this question wouldnt even cross your mind. The right girl wont force it she will let your love grow untill it is ready to be said.

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  • carib_kid

    its hard teach or explain love. and it cant be forced. it just happens its an event. my best explanation is that when you love someone you can never see that person out of your life. and you have a connection that is deep...something like that.
    you can also have love when that special someone has millions of dollars with your name on it the minute they croak.

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  • GeraldMossman

    Find someone different to all the other girls. Maybe you're looking for love in all the same places

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  • oskilover18

    How old are you? My response really depends on that.

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  • buriedalive

    You can't make yourself love somebody, it's just something that happens. Is it just romantic love you have as problem with?

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