How do i know if i'm a lesbian?

I dated 2 guys, 1 that I didn't like even when he touched me and other that i liked but I didn't feel attracted to. I don't notice guys, they all seem the same to me, but I've always thought that it was because I was very demanding.
I always thought that the way i looked at girls was innocent, but now i'm not really sure. Is it normal to be this confused?

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  • you could film it...

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  • imrighturwrong

    yes it's normal to feel this way. Fuck a girl and see if you like it! Sex with a gril is way better than sex with a guy!

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    • freeforall

      depends have you had sex with a girl before well try it its way better then a guy

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  • alv1592

    it's normal to be slightly confused about your sexuality. everybody goes both ways to some extent, but the only way to tell if you're gay or straight is if you're more attracted to the same or opposite sex.

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  • ladyday

    everyone is gay and straight. who you decide to be with is just a preference, like chocolate and vanilla. It just depends on what kind of person you are and what turns you on. Most people are turned on by both sexes, but are just too afraid to admit it.

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  • emilio

    I'm no expert but just think about the idea of being with a girl alot... Just picture yourself. If you start to like it. Then you might just be it >.< Though all girls can have love and sexual relationships with other girls without being 100pct lesbian... From what i know.

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  • bambam1234

    I think that the fact you're trying to find a 'label' to put on it is what's confusing you the most. Ever since what, 6th grade I've dated a majority of boys. In 8th grade, I met a girl and I can't explain why, or how I fell so in 'love' with her. Mind you I'm a sophomore in high school, and thus far, a boy has never made me feel like that. Do I think I'm a lesbian? No. I think you kind of fall for who you fall for, regardless of gender. That's how I am anyways. It's not always about sex, and kissing, and stuff. Haha. Goood luck though. (:

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  • thatgirl1298

    Just try dating a few girls, if you are a lesbian then you'll really enjoy it. But if not then it will show you that you really do want a guy, and just haven't found the right one yet. You need to figure out what makes you happy, and just enjoy yourself.

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  • Bisjac

    You're probably a lesbian, because even if you think all guys are the same, you'd still be attracted to them. If you were straight, you'd be able to notice that all guys aren't the same. Get to lickin' that pussy and not reproducing! Woohoo!

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  • jellokatt

    sexuality is considered a spectrum by most psychologists and psychiatrists. it can take a while to figure out where you fit. relax and don't worry about it so much. date whomever you feel like and don't fret about labels. just try not to close yourself off to anyone just because you don't think you're supposed to like guys anymore (if you decide you're gay) or girls (if you decide you're straight) and always use protection.

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