How do i know if a man waited for me

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I fell in love with a guy 10 years ago. He did try to approach me but i was to shy to get near him. I still have the same feelings for him even after 10 years later. He's still not married even though he's in his early 40s now, i don't know if he's meeting someone too. We bumped each other last year and he smile and blushed when he saw me (we locked eyes too). Do you think he is waiting for me or probably not ready to get married himself?

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  • dom180
    9 years ago

    I really doubt he would have consciously waited 10 whole years for you, but if he might be single and you both seem to be still interested I think you should screw up your courage and reach out to him. Try and build a bridge.

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    • aseasyas
      9 years ago

      I agree

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    • MizzLove
      9 years ago

      It's such a relief to hear someone else opinions than to think about it myself though i would not take chances to approach/reach out to him (it's embarrassing if he's with someone). Furthermore, i'm totally speechless when i'm near him. Thanks for your opinion and support.

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    I'm almost certain he isn't 'waiting for you'.

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  • TwoThumbs
    9 years ago

    I really hope this is just a troll.

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  • equitable75
    9 years ago

    Don't waste a second if you feel you love someone and they are available and possibly love you back. Find out before he gets involved and then you'll be playing with the shoulda coulda woulda sisters:) Find a way to find out or just ask him to coffee or something

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    • MizzLove
      9 years ago

      Thanks for your opinion. I've made my decision not to approach him. Like i said before, i wouldn't have the courage to ask him to coffee or something. I think i'll just let this one pass.

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  • Incomplet
    9 years ago

    It's more likely that he smiled and blushed because he found you attractive in the moment rather.

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    • MizzLove
      9 years ago

      Hurmm, that would be one of the possible reason he blushed. Though, i am not saying i'm attractive. Its just might be some people have different point of view.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    So you didn't see each other for 9 years, then you meet a year ago and you are thinking you want to get together with him now? Why did you wait a year?
    I seriously don't think he gave you much thought over those ten years, and if he's 40 something and never been married, he's really not very good marriage material, anyway.
    If I were you, I'd just let this one pass again and if you are actively searching for a marriage proposal, then find a guy who might want to get married before middle age.

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    • MizzLove
      9 years ago

      We only bumped each other for 4 years (2005 - 2008) then i don't remember seeing him after that until last year. You are right, i don't think he would remember me. I don't mind about his age even though i am far younger than he is (i'm 24). Thanks for your honest and helpful opinion.

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