How do i get him to do more sexually?

I've been with the same man for 5 years now. I loooove sex and even in the beginning it wasn't something he really liked to do. He got off pretty fast and says he likes the way sex feels but that he's always too tired or just doesn't feel like doing it. He's currently taking something for testosterone because we are thinking that has to do with it. We do have sex every week when he feels like it but I want to do more. I want it to be rough and fun. I want him to talk dirty and call me names. I dont know how to tell him all of this since hes literally just a wham bam thankyou man type of guy in the sack. I'm super attracted to him still after 5 years and would never stray but I just want a better sex life. I crave it and think about it alot. I masturbate even after we have sex. I just dont know what to do.I just want some passion.