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My boyfriend LOVES my figure but I do not find it attractive at all. I am so embarrassed every time I undress. How do I stop worrying about it so much and just pleasure him? I want to keep happy but I can't seem to put my insecurities aside.
Trust him.
No seriously, just trust him. He finds you attractive, there's nothing complicated about it. If a man likes what he sees, then he likes what he sees. Men usually don't pick at things like a few hairs or discolored patches or some cellulite here and there, or whether or not your tits are perfectly shaped
In fact, most women do not have perfectly shaped bodies and the ones who do have been incredibly blessed by God or a surgeon. Just relax and focus more on having a good time then whether or not you look like Adriana Lima in the sack.
How ready is this relationship for intimacy?
Where's the love and tenderness that erases doubt, puts you at ease, and fills you so full of passion that you could burst? It is just not there.
Instead of feeling bad, inadequate and blaming yourself face the facts. Your boy friend stinks in bed.
Until that boy can put some fire in your pants - which is his job - keep your pants on.
You will never feel confident with a sexual partner who only knows how to fly solo.
Sexy underwear, maybe? Something that you think makes you look good, and makes you feel more confident?
You need to trust that he finds you attractive. I have been with insecure girls & I truthfully could not fault them in any way. It sometimes took a while to get them to believe that but...
Think of it like this. Your BF probably has insecurities (almost everyone does) but they're things that don't bother you. Same thing...
Okay...it's nice for you to feel secure in your body...but, believe me...I would LOVE to have a girl whose body I enjoy next to me...whether or not she feels good about herself...If he feels good about your body...go with it and try as best to forget about your feelings and satisfy (possibly elate) him as best you can...
He obvoiusly finds you attractive or he wouldn't be with you so just have fun. I have never let my figure get in the way or my love life during love making I don't worry about anything (stetch marks or cellulite). My attitude is I have as much entiltment to a fulfilling healthy and satifying sex life a slim women. xx
sometimes if women are insecure taking charge helps. and watching yuorselfs in a mirror might if that's not to much for you.
Have sex while drunk (easy) or change your beliefs (difficult). Either way you did not pose an IIN question.