How do i deal with my friend that's obsessed with asian stuff?

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She really bothers me. I'm Asian and some of the stuff she's said just irritates me. I've heard her say these stuff to me:

"I wish i was Asian."
"I want an Asian man to fuck me."
"*Inserts some random Korean/Japanese sentence*"
"I'm 0.24 % Korean." (Shes white by the way)

When i scored a 20/20 on my math test i decided to tell her the exciting news. She said "Well duh, you're Asian."

I mean, she wears Japanese school uniforms at school, we're not in Japan and a feat like this just attracts a lot of attention to us when we walk the halls together, people look and it makes me feel uneasy.

I've had enough of this bullshit, she's really kind and all, i don't want to lose her but i'm not sure what to do about this. It's getting superbly annoying at this point.

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  • MsWho
    5 years ago

    lol, you should kindly tell her how you feel... it sucks to be something that you're not, and maybe that's how she feels. But tell her nicely, maybe she doesn't realize how uncomfortable she's making you feel. And if she is a true friend she'll stop, hopefully later on in her life she'll realize how embarrassing she was, but she'll be thankful that she had someone to be honest and tell her the truth.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Smack her with your sushi roll.

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  • Kangaroofan
    5 years ago

    I think that's too much of her so i'm not wondering that you get so irritated. There's a limit for everything and you have the right not wanting to hear that stuff. Enough is enough.

    Talk to her creatively like "Don't get this the wrong way, i don't mean this in an offensive way but the things is that you talk too much about Korean stuff and that irritates me a lot. I don't know why but it just does. I want to be friends and i don't mean to sound mean or hurt you but would it be possible for you not to talk so much about Korean? I mean, i'm happy for you being so excited and all but i hope you understand".

    There's always a creative way of speaking. And if it doesn't work, like if she gets too hurt, wait it she calms down and if she doesn't and will not want to understand you - she not might be your friend. Sometimes we have to face down harsh facts in life.

    If you talk to her in a nice way and creatively, you have done everything you could. Relationships are a bitch sometimes.

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  • congress
    5 years ago

    she's some self-hating white girl who is probably only your friend because you're asian.

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    I love fucking my asian gf. Unrelated, but whatever.

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  • Poopusher5000
    5 years ago

    Tell her u like Aussie cock coz it's bigger and better than Asians little microscopic useless crap

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Laugh at her crazy ass.

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