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Alright, so im a guy and I think I am bi, one of my other friends is gay but he's never said anything about it, but another one of my friends, we'll call her by her name backwards, Anna (lol!) has asked me numerous times if I'm gay or bi and I always told her no, but I'm actually bi, please comment below to tell me what to do, nothing sarcastic please.
And it is always hard to come out but you just have to bite the bullet and tell them, there's no other way to do it really.
But even if a person prefers a male over a female, the very fact they are still attracted to both confirms their bisexuality.
Preferring one over the other means nothing if the person concerned still is attracted to both sexes.
Just push the hangers and coats out of the way and open the door. Sorry that was dumb. Cant help. Theyre strutting about. ARRGGGHHHH! *pigeons scatter everywhere*
^^ I beg to differ. Bisexuality does exist. You can be attracted to both sexes even if you prefer one over another. Coming out is very hard for me for some reason. I think the best way to do it is to talk to this person in private. Tell them your feelings and if they are a good friend then they will understand. Good luck!
No such thing as bi. Sure u may enjoy both or whatever, but at the end of the day we all have a favorite, one we like better, that really does it for us. Ask urself this: who can u see u living w, spending time w every day, who can u develop a long lasting relationship w, sharing ur life and ur inner being w? A man or a woman? If a man, ur gay, if a woman, ur not.
There is no "think" with sexual attraction. It is like saying "I think I can see/hear/taste, etc." You either know it is so, or it is not so. You are not gay or bi, just a sad victim of complex socio-psychological forces and the media.
So everyone who thinks they are bisexual and end up having sex with both men and women are not bisexual because they have been confused by media?
That's confusing. Perhaps you've never had a bi-curious thought before cause if you had done, you'd know it can fuck your mind up like heck.
just go suck some dick dumb ass everyone will know soon enough. or better yet lube it up right before your butt buddie comes over and drop them suddenly, hopefully he gives it to you hard the first time, nothing better than a bleeding bunghole
I would come out but I would not want to hurt my family.My wife would not accept it.
"Oh know, now I'm stuck in the closet too!.. and i pull out my gun!!!!" -Rkelly in south park.
Very ridiculous but I instantly thought of that after i read this.
Just tell them! It's no big deal to me :) I think everyone should get a long. For the most part...
I'm Bi, but I'm not 100% out.
Just a few people know the truth...
You should tell them. If they are really your friends than they'll understand. No one should have to hide their true selves.
Ah, my friends in the same situation xxxxxx just don't outright deny it but don't go round shouting it either, that way those who want to gossip will like usual but those who would accept it do so more quickly and helps you get back on track with life more easily xxxxxxx
You don't have to scream it, next time someone asks be honest. Next time the conversation topic heads that way in a group, drop a hint. Be very honest with your closest friends, if you loose one from it so be it, you will find more and those friendships will be stronger. Be careful about greater circles of friends, try to gauge how people think before you tell them. Although, you said one of them is gay so it shouldnt be that hard to come out. Maybe speak to that friend first
Just come out. Trust me when I say a huge weight will be lifted off of your sholders when it's all said and done.
I came out when I was 14. My mom took my cellphone away and I wanted to sell her a sob story so she would give it back to me. Haha it totally worked. But I wouldn't suggest that course of action. Here's what I suggest. If it's too hard to tell someone to their face, write them a letter and leave it for them when you're not around. That way they have time to think about it. Btw coming out is great because you find out who your real friends are and u can weed out the fakers!
same here just tell her yes but keep it lowkey if you still like girls cuz it may turn them off
Come out to people you trust, all one by one never say in a group matter how close you all are it's kind of more pressure, although I didn't tell my parents until I met someone I thought I would be with forever just be careful that's the best advice I can give
Really it's best if you just tell them. They will sill be your friends. And if they don't like you for it they probably don't deserve to be your friends. Also you could end up in an amazing relationship with your homosexual friend. But if you don't like him in that way you could always just stay friends.