How do i broach the subject of my pee fetish with my wife?

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We have been married a year and have a healthy sex life, we don't break any boundaries but i wouldn't call us conservative either. She once brought the subject up " You know some people out there like peeing on each other, sick isn't it?" So ever since then i have been too worried she will think I'm sick to bring up my fantasy. i dont want to drink her pee just maybe her to pee on me in the shower and maybe me pee on her. How should I approach the subject or should i just forget it?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    When people bring up golden showers, who knows what comes to their mind first. Maybe they're thinking of peeing on someone's body, a face, or in the mouth. When your wife said she thought it was "sick", perhaps she was thinking of the worst-case scenario associated with pee fetishes and that's why she had a negative opinion.

    As long as you're comfortable with her sexually, then you should have nothing to fear by telling her your fantasies. It would probably be prudent to mention upfront that you don't want any pee-drinking. Then go on to tell her you wouldn't mind it if she tried peeing on you in the shower.

    Never pee on her without her consent, it's not likely it will be appreciated and could ruin any chance you might have had by asking her first.

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  • jeebley
    10 years ago

    Maybe try and get at what her fetishes are, focus on that for a while and she will return the favour. Her comment may even indicate that she has a secret pee fetish as well (maybe subconsciously).

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  • Cucco
    10 years ago

    Maybe you could ask her about her fetishes and ease the subject in from there?

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  • GuessWho
    10 years ago

    Pee on her in the shower. Most men get away with that as it seems like a simple joke.

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  • peterr
    10 years ago

    I will piss all over you and you can thank me by sucking me off.

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  • cavendish
    10 years ago

    Yeah Have tried the old is there anything you would like to try out routine, but she says she is perfectly happy with our vanilla sex life. Not sure i want to go outside the relationship. @ Avant-Garde do you think a person would end a marriage over something like that, hypothetically speaking of course, would it be the end for you?

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    She obviously doesn't want to do it so go get a hooker to do it for you, it's not really cheating it's just satisfying a desire, and when you do it you might realize it's not as good as what you thought and you'll be over it.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    Now, if you really need some fulfilment on this, you could get yourself a dominatrix.

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  • Avant-Garde
    10 years ago

    She already admitted what her stance on this is. There is no mystery on how she'll react. She won't be accepting and may sadly even cost you your marriage.

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