How do i ask out a girl i really like?

I liked this girl for a long time and I think she likes me back but the problem is that I'm shy and we never talk. She is going out with a different guy now. Is it normal when I don't know when to ask girls out. so its not to late again.

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  • MauriceLikesChicks1015

    I'm going through the same thing sort of bruh :/

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  • gogo45

    If she like you then it will never be too late. I would say start up a conversation with her and then go from there.

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  • Real

    Maybe it's an age thing, but if you don't take a risk/chance and ask someone out that you are interested in, you could be missing out on something fucking great, the love of your life.

    sure it sucks to get rejected, but it's not the end of the world.

    If you wonder and do nothing, it's unlikely that great things will fall in your lap.

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  • ilovesuperman

    I'm a girl and I'm going through the same thing. and it sucks :/

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  • joshdecator

    Is it normal when I don't know when to ask girls out. so its not to late again. Its in there

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  • rayst

    I didnt see a IIN question here, IIN?

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  • I_steal_free_bread

    I realy don't know, for some reason, for me I dont have to do anything, girls would come to me but thats me.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    If she's already dating someone she might not want to go out with you, not as a romantic outing.

    As a friend perhaps.

    Lunch is always a safe bet.

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    • joshdecator

      My question was not about the girl that's going out already but for the girls that are single.

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      • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

        Ah, I thought you were trying to ask her out specifically.

        Well then for a generic "asking a female out" I would still suggest lunch. It's casual, can be light enough to not spook her... unless she likes you back, in which case it can be just enough to spark her interest.

        Plus it can give the impression that you respect her enough that you want to be friends with her as well as date her. That you think she's worth taking the slow road for.

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  • Real

    A good way to approach it is to ask questions about them. People love to talk about themselves.

    Also, i would recommend not using any lines. Just keep it real.

    Hey, you seem like a cool person, i'd like to get to know you better. wanna hang out sometime. Go for a hike or do something fun!

    Good luck brah

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    • JoeyAnne

      I agree. This is a good method. Just ask them if they want to hang out sometime. If you've got a good feeling they're into you just as much as you're into them, then chances are they'll say yes. There's nothing wrong with hanging out. After hanging out, you'll learn about them and that will possibly lead to a real date. You'll never know what happens if you don't try. Good luck!

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  • thegift

    Treat her like garbage and ignore her. Soon she will be begging you to go out with her. It sounds ironic but it works.

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