How'd it end up like this?

Okay, me and my girlfriend have been going out for 7 years, and we just seemed to drift apart. Now she does know how much I care about her, but I am also wondering. Is this a dying relationship? We been having "issues" coming up to us lately that seem to test that.

First it started our with others asking her out, and then talking crap to/about me.

Second was family issues

Third was our issues as a in our individual mindsets and questions of our own.

Fourth is like one, but the other way around

And lastly... we hardly get out, we hardly go on dates, we don't have the resourses to see each other a lot, and my reoccuring questioning about my sexuality, and lastly my hobbies.

First off, yes I am the same person who made that post about questioning my sexuality a second time if you want to know that(...is it normal To Be Confused Twice?...) my hobbies, I write and do abstract photo manipulation, and I am also a pot-head

She does writing, but she does video editing and use better equitment for photo manipulation! She is basically richer than me in every way. We live on oppisite sides of town, but I am having second thoughts and I still have feelings of affection for her. I still want to marry her and live my life, but i don't... is this nornal

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Comments ( 17 )
  • nikkiclaire

    You shouldn't even be considering marriage at this point. Take some time to figure out your issues first. There is no rush.

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  • Shackleford96

    7 years is a long time to suddenly become unsure about somebody.

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  • leggs91200

    Can there not be one post on here that doesn't mention gayness? You said you have questions about your sexuality.

    People get bored with relationships. The smarter ones out there avoid marriage because sooner or later it goes stale. Look at the divorce rates.

    Getting married isn't going to fix anything. You two sill just be sitting around the same house getting stoned and photo manipulating abstract art or whatever shit.

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  • JD777

    Time for you guys to talk this out before things languish any more. Could be you’re drifting apart for the better. Or it could be you’ve judged her thoughts wrong. Get it all out on the table and decide which way to move. If there is a deep connection, you’ll work through this. If not, you’ll find out now before wasting any more of your lives.

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  • We got it talked through, We ended it before it got bad. Thx for the comments and support

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  • RandomNumbers

    talk to he and see if you guys want to break up or stay together and if so how to fix the relationship

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  • SmokeEverything

    Marriage is stupid. If you really vibe youll be in each others lives forever without a realationship or forcing it to be.

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  • IrishPotato

    Ha gay

    Fucking hell, 7 years and not even living together?

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    • We been going out since 6th grade

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      • IrishPotato

        Why aren't you moved in together?

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        • I don't know to be honest, maybe it has to do with her dad being crazy, and her sister being a drama filled crazed beach

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          • IrishPotato

            Just go and rent a place.

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            • We'll talk about it

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  • RoseIsabella

    Are you the guy who says he's straight, but has sex with dudes, and can't be with your girlfriend unless you take Viagra?

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    • leggs91200

      Rose come on, EVERY man on here is straight but has sex with dudes. That is why it is every other thread. Oh here is one - look at the most popular threads, almost all of them some weird sexual shit

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      • SmokeEverything

        Every straight person on earth has sex with dudes. come on its 2018

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      • IrishPotato

        True.

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