How can i say 'no'?

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My boyfriend and I split up about four days ago and I've kind of struggled to deal with it as I'm known for keeping my emotions held in. the relationship wasn't the greatest but we still love each other and there's a strong chance (I truly hope) that we may get back together.

Tonight, I was talking to one of my male friends - who I often make innuendo comments with, although I only like him as a friend - and he seemed to be really coming onto me then he came on webcam, asked me to tell him what I thought of his penis and started talking about some party he's throwing and what he'd like to 'do to me'. after that he was jerking off on the cam and I have got the impression that he likes me a hell of a lot more than a friend and I think he wants to act on it.

One of my biggest flaws is that I struggle to say 'no' to people and I really don't want to hurt his feelings but my break-up is seriously raw and I'm not interested in him in that way whatsoever. How do I let him down gently and should I tell my ex?

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  • CptCalicoJack
    13 years ago

    Just tell him, don't beat around the bush, as some people are just daft and can't tell when someone is not interested in them.

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  • merkel204
    13 years ago

    he dosent want to have sex with you,everyone wacks of in front of webcams for friends.

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  • Gabriell
    13 years ago

    So, you still talk with your ex?
    If that makes him jealous tell him.. but then everytime you are with that "friend" he will be like "Why are you still friends with that guy? Are you cheating on me?" and stuff like that..
    Just tell him no, don't act like you feel sorry for him or whatever. Straight truth for the win.

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