How can i make guys take me seriously?

It's really annoying how most guys just want to fuck. I have no problem getting guys, I get a lot of attention, but 99% of them go straight to making out, and then sex (which I don't let them). But it sucks because yes I like sex but I like to connect even a little with the person. I can't be with a guy who I haven't even talked to. I like to get to know people first. A few guys are actually interested in getting to know me but most of them just want easy sex. I don't know if they're just the wrong guys or I'm the problem. I dress kinda slutty but my attitude is not slutty at all and I make it clear to everyone that I'm hard to get. So I don't think my slutty-vibe is the problem. Any advice?

You need to look for other guys 9
You are the problem (comment) 1
Just give them what they want, they all want sex in the end 2
Tease them 0
I HAVE ADVICE ON HOW TO DO IT! (comment) 2
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  • shade_ilmaendu

    If you're young you'll see a lot of guys behaving this way. Go for those few guys who don't just wanna jump straight in the sack, there's nothing wrong with being selective.

    And I think it's the guys more so than yourself. I don't always dress provocatively but I wear whatever I want within reason, my shit can get pretty skimpy at raves sometimes. Gets hot as balls in those places. I've been known to take my shirt off when we're partying in the woods or doing bonfires just to try to keep them clean/keep cool, and I haven't lost respect from any of my friends, if anything I think they're impressed, think I'm ballsy or something. XD

    Unfortunatley some guys just can't stop thinking with the southern head.

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  • LizardSkin

    Date guys a little older, not teenage boys trying to get their nut off vigorously all the time. When males are boys they may as well be pups trying to hump your leg.

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  • omghahahawasbanned

    Just bite their penis HARD next time when you blow them. Then make them eat their own cum.

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  • 1000yrVampireKing

    You are looking at this the wrong way. You are not the problem and you should not tease them. The fact they see you as a sex object is them thinking with the dick not the brain. So they will see anything as a fuck puppet. I am very sorry to say. They are probobly never going to take you serious. Even if you cure cancer and win the noble piece prize. They will just see a nice fuck. So just ignore them and do not let them bring you to the level they are at. It is not you it is them. THE PROBLEM IS NOT YOU!

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  • shuggy-chan

    Try telling them about the bible and the lord, next time a guy tries to handsy

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  • Terence_the_viking

    You going for the man whores.

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