How can i have my girlfriend dress up

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I absolutely love to see my girlfriend dress up in sexy dresses, high heels, pantyhose and lingerie but now she has told me that she only wants to dress in comfortable clothes. She has to dress nice for work but when it comes to me she wears stuff that is that the complete opposite and doesn't take into consideration how my feelings are hurt by this.
She use to dress up for me and wear the things I liked and even would wear pantyhose for me to make me happy in the beginning.
I would see her all dressed up and now those dresses and things just hang in the closet collecting dust. She now tells me she hates to wear pantyhose even thought she never mentioned this in the past. When we go out I feel that my girlfriend doesn't care about how I feel or about all the nice things ive bought her to wear.
I have told her that she looks great and gave her a lot of compliments and now I'm not feeling that she has taken into consideration that she has upset me. Every time I mention this it causes a fight.
What can I do about this? I miss seeing my girlfriend look and dress nice for me and look like she does for her work

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  • TheJester
    9 years ago

    Your feelings? What about hers? Douche.

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    • beic
      9 years ago

      Hows that not selfish on both your part and hers? It is obvious that the girl just wanted to attract him just to get a boyfriend. That's all she cares about because when it came down to caring about the person shes with, she acts like it isn't a big deal.

      She only wanted a boyfriend and now that shes got one because he's practically fallen for her, she takes full advantage of him by not ever considering the dudes feelings. If she did care, she'd listen. If I were this guy I'd mention it to the girl, and if the girl complains about it for a sec...later!

      Why do you care so much about the girls feelings when its not even her that is hurt? Just by reading just one of comment of yours, all I can say is I feel sorry for whoever you end up with. That's if you actually get someone.

      Learn to be more considerate of peoples feelings. This is ridiculous.

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    • mixology
      9 years ago

      Screw you...ive done everything she asks for and more

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Your feelings are as normal as her laziness.

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    • sandraasiilva
      9 years ago

      ^ Yeah. And maybe you're hurting her feelings too because she might think that you only like her in those sexy clothes, and don't really feel atracted to her in any other clothes.
      It's ok to tell her you like seeing her on dresses. but dont give much importance to it. and don't be like saying it all the time. you will see that she will fell desire to dress sexy again for you :)

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  • RainbowDischarge
    9 years ago

    I wish my boyfriend wanted to see me in sexy dresses.

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    • Docholiday
      8 years ago

      Move here

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  • palepunk
    9 years ago

    Give her a reason to dress up for you. Make her feel sexy, take her out to a nice restaurant.

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  • DelanieDinosaur
    8 years ago

    I experienced this same thing with my ex. He wanted me to dress up for him but after a long day at work, all I wanted to do was to feel comfortable. It hurt my feelings when my ex told me he wanted me to dress up for him after I'd spent so long working. Especially when he would compliment me more whenever I was dressed up. It made me feel like I wasn't sexy to him unless I was dressed up. It made me feel as though he really only had ulterior motives. Try wining and dining! Even if it is on a rare occasion or even "silly" to her or others. Get dressed up yourself into your nicest attire and invite her out to dinner and a movie! It doesn't have to be a fancy place, just something intimate between the two of you. Look "out of place" WITH her and have a romantic evening. Shit, no money for a dinner out? Get dressed up and prepare an evening picnic for just the two of you. Lay out a nice dress and heels and tell her you have a surprise for her tonight. Make her feel special and appreciated. She will do the same thing to you.

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  • Swan_Theif9854
    9 years ago

    Have you ever wore panty hoes or high heels? They're fucking uncomfortable! Do you both a favor and leave this poor girl so she can find someone who doesn't care what she wears.

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  • poon__jabber
    9 years ago

    she won't dress up even when you go out?

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    Just start brazenly insulting her appearance. Use words like 'disgusting' and 'homely' and 'hypotenuse' Lol. Idk... just tell her you like when she looks sexy. Do the whole "now that u have me, u don't try anymore" thing. And if she doesn't listen, stop taking her places. say ur more comfortable just staying home. You'll save some $ and hopefully get the point across. Try talking to her first tho. Communication is really important.

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  • Spankz
    9 years ago

    Honestly, from my experience she isn't dressing sexy for you, because you aren't making her feel sexy. Tell her how much you desire her, fuck her like you can't hold back and she is the sexiest human being in the world to you. Make her feel wanted, otherwise she won't feel the need to impress you. However, if you're already doing all these things, chances are she really just likes comfortable clothing. All women do. I love dressing comfortably and my boyfriend loves me regardless. He is just as content having me lounge around in underwear and a hoodie as he is when I wear a sexy dress. Maybe try looking at more than just the superficial stuff. Perhaps you aren't really all that attracted to who she is? In that case, I suggest you break up with her and find someone who you will live in any form of clothing.

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  • golden_showers
    9 years ago

    tell her you're taking her somewhere special but she has to dress up.

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  • TheJester
    9 years ago

    Except consider that perhaps she is not at her most comfortable in heels, stockings and dresses? Please. I bet you don't wear smart clothes all the time either. If you really loved her she would be beautiful to you nomatter what she wears. You don't deserve a girlfriend.

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    Dress up with her. Wear a suit and tie. Be dapper. Give her a reason to want to dress up.

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  • FruityGoofyFaggot
    9 years ago

    Ask her if there's any sexy outfits she'd like to see you in.

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