How can i get over this guy , but not completely forget about him?....

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ok so long story short, i have been thinking im in love with this boy for over 4 months. Then we started talking a lot and getting into the whole, "your my bestfriend" ichat, facebook, and text thing. Then recently he asked me out. so of course i said yes! The thing is, he asked me out 3 days before my high schools christmas break (2 weeks) and i knew that it wasn't going to work out probably. I really truely think i love this boy, but now he hasnt talked, texted, facebooked, ichatted, tickled (;) or anything with me! So now im thinking about breaking up with him.... but i still want to go out with him, but i know if i break up with him he'll think that i will always dump him. So really i wasted half of my school year trying to make this boy like me and then wanting to break up with him..
im constantly crying, even if hes mine or not, and thinkin that my life is going to end...

this doesnt really make much sense. but if you were me, you would understand. i just want to know if this is kind of normal, and what you would do.

btw... i am a girl! lol

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  • Bubblegum_Ninja
    13 years ago

    Wow... I don't want to destroy your youth but there is seriously more important things in life.

    Firstly, just because he hasn't; poked, texted, tickled (etc) you recently doesn't mean he doesn't like you.

    Girls read more into those things than boys do... seriously. It's like a code for girls. Guys are more interested in blasting some skulls off.

    If you still like him just ask if you can spend more time together. If he wants to keep you he'll more than likely say okay.

    You sound young... some guys aren't very good at relationships. It's not that they don't care about you it's just that they need some help sometimes.

    p.s. Have you talked to him?!!! Maybe he's feeling the same way.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    You're 14 you'll get over it

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    • nanimeow
      13 years ago

      That was the age I was guessing.

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  • Nancy_willington
    9 years ago

    Don't dump him. He's probably busy with family issues

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  • AnonymousCanada
    12 years ago

    long story SHORT?!?!?! i understand an answer being a novel long but keep the questions short. you basically just described EVERY single break up in the history of break ups. what the fuck kind of question is this???

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  • ilikeshit
    13 years ago

    dump it your 14

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  • TheW1fey
    13 years ago

    I so agree with the ^^ comments! First off, at your age, boys are immature and shy as well. Maybe he is spending some quality time with his family and is super busy...? Stop over thinking it! Your young and relationships come and go. You didn't mention if you tried texting him or not. If you haven't made the effort than why do u expect him to go the full 100% instead of meeting him in the middle. Relax, your young, and things work themselves out in the long run!

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  • AnonymousCanada
    12 years ago

    ok i just actually read your story (i just skipped it when i wrote my previous comment) HOLY FUCK WOMAN!!! you are the cliche "cant make up my mind because im a stupid bitch" woman. if you love him THEN DONT DUMP HIM YOU RETARD!!! i have an idea, this procedure has been around since the beginning of time and has worked then and will work now, theres this thing called "real life" where people actually engage in activities such as "talking". why dont you talk to him instead of relying on bullshit technology to tell whether or not he still likes you. maybe hes just too busy to deal with a dumbass like you right now and thats why he doesnt text you. have you ever thought of that one bitch?

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