How can i admit i lied??

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I'm bi and at the moment I'm dating most amazing girl on the world, but it's over the internet. We met on one online game. At that moment I had male character so she met me as a guy. And I told her I'm a guy. First I thought I'll date her only in that game, for fun. But I started to care about her really much. How should I admit her I'm really a girl?? I know I done bad thing, but I don't wanna lose her.

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  • kittenlittle
    12 years ago

    first ask her what she would think of being with a woman. maybe shes bi too. its just over the internet, so its probably just fun for her anyway and wont be very offended if she found out you were a girl.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're absolutely screwed.

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  • limiter
    12 years ago

    don't tell her and break it off. let her be happy. online crushes are blind, you'll find out how different you both are in real life.

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  • SarahGrace
    12 years ago

    Well the first thing fist. Why did u want ta appear as a guy on the game? And why did u tell the grl that u were a guy? U also need ta meet this grl in person ta hav a TRUE relationship. And I'm not sayin that ur relationship ain't true. The best thing ta do is ta ease her into it first. Start askin her if she would b ur friend if u were bi. Ask her if she truly like u. Then I DEFINITLY want u ta ask her if she would go out with u even if u were a grl. And see what she says and agin EASE her into tellin her that u r of the same sex. In he end hopefully she will still like u for u!

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  • SweetSherry
    12 years ago

    I'd tell her the truth if I were you and hope she's not a homophobe.

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  • rawr123451
    12 years ago

    Tell her the truth. If shes ok it's all good. If she's not you've lost her but it's only over the Internet anyway

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    tell her the truth

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago

    the best.thing to do is to admit the truth to her just as you did us. when she realizes that, shell most likely be touched. although asking her beforehand about if shes bicurious might be a good idea, but if u tell her that if she doesnt like girls at all then thats fine, just explain to her that u never expected to care about her, but that youd love to just have her as a friend and wouldnt want to lose her friendship bcuz shes a special person.

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  • MrsBailey9
    12 years ago

    I tend to think that honesty is the best policy. If you want a "real" relationship, then you have to be real yourself.
    ---Chew on it and sleep on it, make a mature decision.

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  • dappled
    12 years ago

    Just be completely honest.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I see guys playing as female toons in games but females as males, never heard until now. You didn't want attention and free loots and money?

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  • randomjelly
    12 years ago

    Just tell her. It's not a "real" relationship anyway. If she splits then you've lost nothing.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Just break up with her and say it's not working because we get don't get to see each other at all. And don't tell her that your a girl.

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  • Tisgranum
    12 years ago

    G.I.R.l.S in online games. Guy in real life, lol

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  • emilydoll
    12 years ago

    Uh ... You were posing as a guy because?

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