How best to get pregnant by a stranger?

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I am 33 years old, want to have a child, but my husband's has a low sperm count and is not potent enough to get me pregnant.

We've decided we want to have a child naturally via natural insemination.

We don't want any legal troubles or to have the natural father to sue us for visitation, so we think it's best if I have sex with strangers so they won't know if they got me pregnant or not.

We are considering the following options for me to meet strangers for sex and get pregnant and would like to know which option you think is best.

Become an Escort	13
Post an Ad on Craigslist	13
Create a profile on Ashley Madison	5
Pick up guys at a Bar	8
Hook up with guys at a local truck stop	5
All of the Above	20

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GiveMeAFuckingNameAlready!

8 years ago

You can literally walk up to any man and say " You and me are going to fuck tonight".
90% of the time the response would be "uh ok".
The other 10% would think your a cop.

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joedoe

8 years ago

I'll do it.

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handsignals

8 years ago

warning: I was the unknowing sperm donor in this situation 6 years ago and now I'm the partner/active parent, shit can get weird real easy.

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anti-hero

8 years ago | pl

Good luck with AIDS and an AIDS baby.

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Anonymous Post Author

8 years ago

I am impressed with the quality of men I meet escorting and am actually enjoying this. I have 2 more "dates" tonight.

Thanks to all of you for giving me the courage to try this!

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VirgilManly

8 years ago

I think your baby will have the right to know who it's biological parents are. Suppose one day your child would like info regarding family health history and potential health issues?

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Anonymous Post Author

8 years ago

Thanks for all the suggestions and comments so far.
My husband and I really want to have a child, and although he is unable to provide the sperm, he will make a great father.

We have considered our options and he is well aware the option we chose together means I will be having sex with other men.

We just look forward to raising a child with my DNA together and this is the path we have chosen to achieve that goal.

And no, I don't plan on continuing being an Escort or picking up men once I become pregnant.

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- dytrog
  
  8 years ago
  
  I knew you wouldn't while preg. And I was joking about you could return to being a escort after a year if you liked the job.
  
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- dytrog
  
  8 years ago
  
  A sperm donor has to sign away any legal rights in most cases.
  
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  - Anonymous Post Author
    
    8 years ago
    
    I understood you were joking about me returning to be an escort.
    
    As for signing away legal rights, I know someone personally who went this route, and on the DAY of the child's 18th birthday, the donor showed up and announced he was the child's father to the child.
    
    I really don't want that to happen to me.
    With a stranger, that won't be an issue.
    
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    - dytrog
      
      8 years ago
      
      I was just watching the Kelly File. She had Dr. Phil on. He told a story about a woman that met a guy on Craigslist. He took her to a motel "I think it was a motel"
      and cut a unborn fetus out of her. She managed to call 911 and they caught the guy. Just a warning.
      And a escort working in Vegas. She was making $500.00 a date plus tips.
      
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    - dytrog
      
      8 years ago
      
      After doing some online reading I changed my mind about using a donor. So that leaves the option of Ashley Madison or picking up a stranger that has the looks and is at least 6 foot tall so you don't have a runt for a kid.
      
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      - Anonymous Post Author
        
        8 years ago
        
        Thanks everyone for the suggestions. I joined Ashley Madison and have hooked up with 2 married men for sex so far and both of them went well. They both are interested in continuing as a "friends with benefits" relationship.
        
        I also joined an Escort Agency and have my first "date" tonight, so I'll see how that goes.
        
        I'll post back in a few days as to how the Escorting is going.
        
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sararyan7242

8 years ago

Although all of the methods could work, I think I would be the most concerned about the Craigslist Ads unless your husband was going to be nearby when you meet a guy.

You would probably meet the classiest guys by being an Escort, married guys from Ashley Madison, and truckers are probably just passing through, so that would be an option, I suppose.

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- dytrog
  
  8 years ago
  
  You might get busted for prostitution at a truck stop.
  It Is a popular place for prostitutes. And even no money changed hands you may have to prove it and explain it to a judge. Like I said before go to a mall see a married man and make an excuse to talk to him. You prob. get hit on now and then if you are a nice looking lady. So you know how easy it would be to pick up a man. a motel would work.
  
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  - sararyan7242
    
    8 years ago
    
    That's true about truck stops. Married men are probably the safest option. They also would have no interest in seeking custody of the child.
    
    Escorting, Ashley Madison, or as you suggest any married man, would probably work.
    
    How about a combination of all 3?
    
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Anonymous Post Author

8 years ago

My husband is really liking the money I'm bringing in by escorting and thinks I should consider continuing it after I get pregnant to help pay for the expenses.
I am excited about that possibility and am open to it.

He wants me to break up with my Ashley Madison fuck buddies and stick to escorting.

Any thoughts here? I appreciate all the helpful responses I have gotten here in the past on this thread...

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- sararyan7242
  
  8 years ago
  
  My guess is your husband doesn't want you to get too close to your Ashley Madison fuck buddies and is more comfortable with your escort dates.
  
  Your goal is to get pregnant, so perhaps you can remind your husband of that goal and agree to keep seeing your AM fuck buddies for a few more weeks and then break up with them.
  
  If he insists you break up with them now, then ramp up your escorting. I'm happy to hear you are enjoying it.
  
  And there is nothing wrong with continuing escorting if your husband continues to support it.
  
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Mr-Myrtos

8 years ago

Do it with a very especial friend, probably his best friend or your if you feel safe.
I have a very good friend and she had the urge to have a baby but she didn't want to get married or a boyfriend. She went to a very fine disco and found a nice good looking guy.
She as a beautiful boy now with 15 years old. The boy thinks the father was a former boyfriend and only 2 people know about it since.

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wistfulmaiden

8 years ago

You should not inflict your mess on an innocent child. Get a teddy bear.

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Couman

8 years ago

I'd say go with Ashley Madison. Apparently there's tons of men to choose from. Plus I feel sorry for those guys getting scammed and then hacked on top if it. Just make sure you sign up using a pseudonym and share no information that could identify you.

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dytrog

8 years ago

If you like being an escort and get preg. you will have to wait a year before returning to a fun job.
Or just pick up married men for a quick motel visit. Then you can chose who you want to have sex with. And a shower before leaving the room. or between having repeated sex.

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sararyan7242

8 years ago

After thinking about this, I think becoming an escort or Ashley Madison are both good choices.

Ashley Madison, you will be hooking up with married men, who will have no interest in seeking custody if you get pregnant. Plus you can screen them a little first, to see which guys you would prefer to get you pregnant.

I am assuming you are considering on being an Escort for only as long as it takes to get pregnant, then quitting.

Being an Escort, you will meet classier guys and possibly business men. You could use the money to help pay for the expenses a new child brings as well.

If one or your clients happens to be someone you absolutely don't want to get pregnant by, you can always insist they wear a condom.

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dick555

8 years ago

Do it with a special friend.

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youre

8 years ago

This is meased up -_-

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TheCockRoach

8 years ago

The OPs husband is one BETA SOB but if she's still with him she's most likely butt-ugly. Just being honest..

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Exotic_Dreamzz

8 years ago

Sounds to me like you're a disgusting whore. You want to fuck another man while your married just to have a baby. If you were my mom I would kill myself. You can easily get prenant with a mans sperm without fucking a stranger. You know how many men donate sperm? All you have to do is go get donated sperm. But a whore like you has to go out & fuck some body. I feel so bad for your husband. You are just using the child as an excuse.

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FlameDragoon

8 years ago

What's wrong with going to a sperm bank?

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Wild_Child

8 years ago

Best to get anonymous sperm from a doctors office for insemination. Donors are screened, and your baby will have a higher IQ. .

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- debitchishere
  
  8 years ago
  
  I agree.
  
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Ellenna

8 years ago

I cannot believe that neither OP nor any other responder has pointed out unprotected sex with strangers (and some non-strangers too IS DANGEROUS!

If she protects herself against disease she'll also be protecting herself against pregnancy - turn on your brains

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- sararyan7242
  
  8 years ago
  
  I believe the OP is well aware that she has to have unprotected sex in order to get pregnant and seems to be willing to take that risk.
  
  She can minimize the risk by choosing to have sex with married men who are STD free.
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    8 years ago
    
    Why married? And how will she know they're sexually healthy? Medical certificates or what?
    
    I don't understand why she's not availing herself of medical artificial insemination by an anonymous donor
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      8 years ago
      
      The escorting is going good, I have had 7 dates, and they have all been with really nice attractive guys. A couple of them where of a different race, so I had them use a condom as we prefer the child to look like my husband's child.
      
      I'm also seeing 3 guys now from Ashley Madison on a regular basis and that is going well too.
      
      With any luck, I hope I can be pregnant in a couple of months. Thanks for all the suggestions!
      
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      - Ellenna
        
        8 years ago
        
        Well let's hope it's only a baby you end up with and not AIDS or another STD
        
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[Old Memory]

8 years ago

How can you guarantee that the guys you pick are going to be willing to cum in what pretty much is a stranger?

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sillygirl77

8 years ago

This is a great idea... just kidding.

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Arm0se

8 years ago

no .-.

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BlackyHancock

8 years ago

is your husband going to watch?

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