How, balance, it, when, i, am, into, him

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I've found a man who are so charming and nice in the office. Everyday when I am working, chatting and staying with him, I find myself very happy. At the same time, I find he may have the same feeling with me like happy and enjoyable staying with me.

But recently, when I checked the staff information, I find he is married. Even I notice this, I still want to spend more time staying with him and find many ways getting close to him. Should I do this? Can we be just friends this way?

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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    Stay, away, from, him, and, move, on, with, your, life.

    What is it you want to balance anyway?

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  • dreamtrain
    5 years ago

    If you're willing to be friends with him, go on. Keep talking to him, get the confidence. However, don't try to make the guy fall in love with you.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    If you're okay just being completely non-sexual and platonic friends then it's okay, but if you are attracted to this dude then leave him the Hell alone. Don't be a skank-ho, bitches that go chase after married men are nasty skanks.

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  • TS
    5 years ago

    This is called "friendship." It's healthy and normal. Obviously if your attraction to him is sexual then you need to steer clear of him, since he's married, but if it's just that you really enjoy his company then relax and continue enjoying it.

    I have female friends that I'd never consider pursuing a sexual relationship with but whose friendship I very much enjoy. That's just part of being more than 17 years old.

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