How am i supposed to deal with a workaholic bf?
My boyfriend is your average man who isn't confident with himself until he is financially stable and living a good life. So thats what hes pursuing right now which I love and find attractive. Of course I rather have someone who is determined and doing something about it as opposed to a guy who just focuses on his relaitionship. However, having a bf who focuses a lot on his job can get lonely sometimes. I feel like left behind, neglected, alone, etc. I just tell myself its just a stage or for the moment cause its not like he ALWAYS does this but he does most of the time. We are long-distance so that doesn't help. Hes alone to do his thing at work without me being near. So yeah most of the time hes working and finding new projects to do to achieve his financial goal. His future goals and values are compatible with mine. Im not afraid when I have kids with him hes gonna leave us alone. Hes a family guy and which is why hes working hard right now to have a stable living for the future with family. But like I said, for the moment, I feel alone like I dont even have a bf. I want to tell him if he can put more effort into comforting me but idk how without sounding insecure or demanding. It makes me sad to think its cause he doesn't care because we have come a long way and he has improved here and there. But Im also afraid that hes just gonna find new experiences in his projects and finally feel like he doesn't want me in his life anymore. I wish he can focus on his work but love me enough to make me feel safe and secure, not like whatever happens happens.