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all this year I have had to sit next to this fucking hot girl but I don't have the guts to ask her out and if I do I'm pretty sure she well dump me am I normal for being nervous
Sounds like you don't have much experience with the hotties, so she will likely SENSE that and say "no".
Practice dating and handling the "regulars" then work your way UP the beauty scale. It's called "practice"! I lernt that after years of doing what you're doing.
Nobody goes from Kindergarten to Yale without a lot of SH*T in between!
My $.02
ask her out? You could start by talking to her lol. Then simply try n catch her out of school thats all. If your confident shes yours if not then your chances are low. Would you believe in someone who doesnt even seem to believe in himself? o.o helps the credibility >.< good luck mate, hope you do better than me when i was in that situation back then.
Yes it's very normal. If you like the bitch , well go date the fucking bitch.
You can be scared, nervous, swetting, cute, ugly, experience or none or whatEVER... If she likes you, she likes you! If she says no, it's because she simply doesn't like you! :) go up to her and JUST TALK! You will notice if she's interested or not without having to go throught the whole "will you go out with me" situation. ;)
I had this problem and in the end it turned out that she sat next to me because she liked me, not because she was told to like she said to begin with. Go for it dude!
GO UP TO HER NEXT TIME AND SAY "GIRL, YOU
RE SO HOT, CAN YOU SIT ON MY FACE?!?!?!" ALSO LOOK AT HER RIGHT IN THE FACE WITH HUGE EYES AND A OVERDONE SMILE
You should try first, seriously. At least, try to be a friend she loves. Try when you still have a chance. Maybe, you're not good-looking but all hot girls have a crush on ugly guys who know how to be attractive and likablle. If she rejected you when you're someone likable. Then she's not very smart. BE BRAVE!!!
Well on what basis are you asking her out? That you sit next to her & she is "hot?" Some people here say take the risk. But you know she is unlikely to say yes. And then you get to sit next to the hot girl who turned you down all year.
Your problem is you ask the wrong question, and just make assumptions about hitting on a girl because she is "fucking hot" - which doesn't bode well.
Here's a practical suggestion: talk with her as your neighbour, get to know her, be respectful, let her get to know you etc.. You'll soon know a lot more about her & whether there is any interest/hope in a date, or be spared the embarrassment if it is obvious there is not.
okay! don't make the same mistake i done before! just tell her before it's to late!
Go for it. Looking back at all the chances i had to ask a girl out i should of cause you will never know what will happen until you do.
pinkfingers is right on target. Hey, at the very least, you'll get some experience talking to a good-looking girl, and you'll relax a little more the next time an opportunity like that comes up. The worst she can say is no. Best of luck to you.
thats normal man..
just try to be friends with her first and get to know each other better.
Are u afraid of a hott girl? I mean what is there all to be afraid of just be yourself.
hmmm id think that by now someone would have read the other related stories/questions on this site.
why on earth would she turn down a cool sweet dude like you?
I mean look at you, you don't even have the guts to tell her and instead you come here to whine about it!
The worst that'll happen from you telling her, is that she'll reject the wussy you and force you to turn into a real man/woman/wowoman (yeah that one surprised me too)
of course its normal!!
but seriously, ask her out the worst she can do is say no and if u never ask you'll never know and u might regret it! good luck! :)
OMG DONT BE SO SCARED JUST DO IT OTHERWIZE YOU WILL END UP REGRETING IT !!!!! JUST DO IT !!!
There's no harm in just asking her out and seeing what happens next. LIke what many have said, the worst that can happen is that she says no. Maybe she's really hot and can have any guys she wants, but she will have her fair share of a**holes and as you're a nice guy, you can only be in her favour. If you're that nervous, try being her friend and then we see what happens next.
just ask her you never know just dont fall in love with her b4 you do it or you will be crushed ..goodluck
Asking anyone out can be daunting. You just have to put the nerves out of your mind. be sweet and friendly, make it a casual cinema date or something. You have nothing to lose, go for it!! =)
Love & Kisses Poppy xXx
Well you could show her your interested, but dont ask her out or anything.
She might see you like her but she's wondering why you arent asking her out, so she might ask you instead! <--I know, i sound ridiculous but it could happen. In my freshman year of high school there was this hot girl in my art class. She was a sophomore but had to retake art because she failed. Well yea, I had no idea she even liked me but one day I was making jokes as usual and the whole table was laughing then she just flatly asked me "Want to go out?" and I was totally caught off guard so I blurted out "No" aloud so quite a few people heard it. I think she got really embarrassed because I said no and she didnt say anything the whole class. In my head I wanted to take it back and say yes but it was too late. And now, 3 years later, I havent seen her or heard from her since.
You see what happens...
Of course you're normal.
Look. Be smart. If you KNOW you have no chance, maybe just save yourself the embarassment. I know a lot of people are like "Go for it! Who knows!' but if she is hot like you say, she could have any guy she wants.
Just be aware of that.
It would be especially awkward if she said no and you still had to sit next to her.
Yes you are normal =)
you just need to one day try talking to her or if it makes you feel better ask a friend to go with you while you talk to her.
So if you ask her, she might say "No," and you won't get any. How's she gonna' say "Yes" if you don't ask her?
Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The worst that can happen is that you'll be better the next time you meet a hottie and want to ask her out.