Hot-but-self-centered, or well-below-average-but-deep?

This time, suppose your choice in dating is largely between two extremes, with no in-between: someone who brings you to orgasm JUST from looking at him/her but who's so self-absorbed you feel like you're working JUST to earn his/her attention, which is lukewarm at best; or someone who on your looks scale (0-10) measures around a 2--3 on a very good day--but who treats you like the most important person in the world, and who's also so smart she/he can discuss just about anything without coming across as a know-it-all.

In this fictional universe there's no "maybe something better will come along." Yes, you can opt to remain alone forever.

Voting Results
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Based on 7 votes (5 yes)
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Comments ( 19 )
  • MR.mr

    I'd take the girl that treats me nice, If you grow to love them they will start to look more beautiful in your eyes, I know from experience.

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    • AB1234

      Dude, you know you just earned like a bazzilion brownie points. ;)

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      • MR.mr

        lol, it's true though.

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  • charli.m

    I have a guy who is best of both...but if I didn't, I'd got for the plain but great personality.

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  • walkingdildo

    I have to agree with MR.mr here.

    The girls I've dated have not been, shall we say, bombshells, and I knew it from the start, but it started from a conversation, on shared interests.

    OK, one of them it was purely sexual for the whole year, but that's beside the point.

    Appearance really is not the only contribution to sexual attraction, and that grows tired after a while. Shagging the brains out of a woman with a great mind is far more rewarding than out of a woman with a great face and who knows it.

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    • AB1234

      :)

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I'll go with the one that has the personality, brains, and treats me right. Looks will eventually fade over time and won't matter in the end.

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    • AB1234

      {{Sicle}} ;)

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      • Cuntsiclestick

        PICKLE!
        :)

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  • Tempest-au

    As a male, I may be atypical in saying I'd rather mind over matter - give me a great personality any day.

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    • AB1234

      Wow. Lots of comments like this. I didn't expect it...

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  • The hot but self centered one, because at least I might get to sleep with them a few times before they break up with me.

    It's male nature to value appearance over personality. If I liked a girl's personality but she was ugly, I would keep her as a friend. I wouldn't keep her in a position where she'd expect me to fuck her, because that's not something I would want to do if she was a 2/10 to me, which by my generous standards would have to be horror movie tier ugly.

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    • AB1234

      Dude, thanks for the laughs--and the honesty.

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  • dirtybirdy

    I choose solitude. Dark and mysterious, spontaneous and lively. Doesn't argue or get in my way. Always looks amazing. Always treats me well. Ahh yes. Solitude, my love, my life.

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    • AB1234

      You're so ... dirty...

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  • mrbrownfinger

    Which is the girl that takes it up her butt?

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  • Michael2cool

    I opt to be alone and masturbate.

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    • AB1234

      Hey, at least you'll have super strong forearms, right? :)

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      • Michael2cool

        Lol

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