Hmmm...what do you think?

Well, I've got a situation here, not necessarily bad, but I just wanted to get your advice on what I'm about to tell you. Honest answers and opinions please! Thanks

Well, to begin, a year from this coming April, it will be the oen year anniversary of meeting someone. She is special to me and our situation is kind of unique. Well, like I said, last April (06'), I met a girl on a chat site. We came in on occassion the following weeks and months and enjoyed chatting quite a bit. Then eventually, we exchanged emails and talked on MSN for awhile. Then, of course, both being teenagers (I'm 18, she's 16) added each other as friends on myspace. So really, I got to know her pretty well and I liked her.

Well, ever since the summer, we really did get to know each other a lot and we decided that we should eventually talk on the phone. And I told her I liked her, but she already had a BF which was fine with me because of the long distance anyways (6 hours away). But the interesting thing was on myspace (I know you all hate myspace but bear with me) she moved me up high on her top friends list. I thought it was crazy because first off, we never met person to person and we have never talked on the phone. But I guess I can see why because I helped her out a lot with matters over her Boyfriend and that we always have a good time talking to each other. I find it amazing that I was esteemed that high. As of right now, we still chat, and we are working on the phone thing too, which I can't wait!

But lately, especially since the past summer, I have been developing "feelings" I suppose for her. I mean, I know its not love, trust me I'm not jumping the gun. But I definitely like her a lot and I want to eventually meet her later on of course. I was just wondering if it was normal or not to have these feelings from just chatting over the net.

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Comments ( 9 )
  • Lollablader

    Hey are your initials NVT by any chance?

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  • anabolic19

    shes got a boyfriend mate
    a went through a similar thing too
    but i was on the bad side of the situation
    my girlfriend liked some one else
    ( its ok tho i broke the f*ggets face )

    your gonna fuck up her life
    cos shes too far away
    so your probably gonna meet her
    f*ck her
    she'll dump her boyfriend
    you'll try make the distance thing work
    it wont
    you'll brake up
    you'll both be lonely

    i know you might feel somthing for her
    but try looking around where you live
    don't c*ck block yourself for some chick on the net
    cos even if she does meet you and starts going out with you
    if shes willing to leave her boyfriend for some one else then she could do the same for you happens all the time has happened to like 5 of my mates
    good luck

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  • Clovis5119

    It's just fine that you like someone online, but it does kinda suck that she's already got a bf.

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  • GreyScale

    I would just wait until they break up and then swoop in.

    The chances of a decent girl breaking up with her boyfriend for another guy is really small, so.

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  • iwondered

    Yea if like her then just keep talking to her. Maybe you guys might become something.

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  • quaygurl

    your chill. just go with it.

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  • Crookshanks

    I would say it's normal.
    Not in a shallow way but she might not be what you expect when you meet her, people talk soooo differently on net to in person and you may find you prefer her online persona.

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  • it's a guy

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  • EccentricWeird

    Truth: His name is Francesco and he's 38.

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