His mum hates me for nothing

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So I've been with my fella 10 months now have know his entire family for 9 years as I'm best friends with his sister, me and his mother never had a problem with each other up until about a month now she randomly started accusing me of stealing out of her room which I'm never there to be in her room as I'm always on shifts at work constantly and I only get 15 mins break and when I finish work it's bedtime and when I'm off I'm up early in the morning for a run and going over to visit my own family so I'm never alone in that house so I have no time to go near her room then a week after that I didn't eat a full dinner as I wasn't well and she started yapping about it to my boyfriend which started rows, over a wee be of good like! Me and my boyfriend can't even play fight anymore without her thinking that it's sex when it's not, then she sits and talks about me to her neighbours friends etc calls me a tramp and a skank! We've never had problems with each other then bang she's starting to downgrade me on every little thing and it's going to end up making me and my boyfriend break up which I don't want!

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  • Nickvey
    6 years ago

    life is too short and way too many men wont have this mother. you are not letting her win by breaking up, you are winning.

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  • neopithair
    6 years ago

    His mother sounds like a psycho who's probably just scared of losing her little boy. She probably just wants the best for him, and is a perfectionist when it comes to the girls he dates, especially if this is one of the longer relationships he's been in. Then again, she might just be going through some shit and you're an easy target for her anger. Either way, try to be as calm as you can be around her, and don't lose your temper, otherwise she'll just like you less and less. Talk to your boyfriend about it too, maybe?

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    • Ashy95
      6 years ago

      That's just it though she had done the same on her oldest son now he can't get into relationships because he's afraid of them breaking up all the time over her, and she had done it on her only daughter to only she done the wise thing and moved out and is still with her man 6 years now, im his first proper relationship and he's told her to stay out of it but she just doesn't, I used to be real close to his mum until this all happened, she's not going threw anything either he had a word with her earlier about it to see if that's why. I've tried talking to him about it but it just turns out into an argument and I end up getting that annoyed I have to leave and go to my mums to calm down and when I'm come back I'm just not happy being here I've been looking for my own house but he doesn't want me to because he's not ready to move and I've told him that's fine but I need out for me and our relationship. Yeah I am being calm we don't talk at all I try talk to her the way I use to but she just ignores me and makes no eye contact which I have said to him I find that very rude of her to do especially when there are guests in the house and he just doesn't say anything to her, I've told him to if she has a problem with to come to me and talk about instead of involving him all the time because then it pisses him off then boom more arguments and it's not healthy for us to argue so much. She can be a very evil woman sometimes her own sons and daughter had said that to me but I always thought nothing of it

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