High school sucks?

why is it that every time i make friends with someone, were good with eachother for a few months and they think im pretty fun to be around and stuff, and then all of a sudden they just start turning into aholes and start making fun of me, laughing at me behind my back, and then they usually just stop liking me.

this is happening with A LOT of the people I know, in fact most of them. Even some people who ive been friends with for years.

Is there something im missing here? is this normal?

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Based on 82 votes (55 yes)
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Comments ( 18 )
  • Piggy123

    Of course... high school is made to suck

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  • jatty

    Yes it is normal I'm going through it right Now !

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  • Make better friends. That takes work. But you won't find them in mean & shallow cliques.

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  • K.T

    Becuase Highschool's filled with hormone ridden things called Teenagers.
    They range in different groups of assholes and assettes,some are good.But most a So illly retarded it's inevitable.
    Also,if one makes fun of you or you ever catch yourself in a "flamewars"
    Just trow a fiery insult back and have a big stupid doofy grin on your face.Most seem to get real pissed off by this and the others often to tend to side on your side if you do it right.Good Luck kid~

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  • youdontevenknow

    people in high school are immature and have a tendency to talk about you behind you back and poke fun and all that crap. they're all two-faced little brats anyway. don't worry about them

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  • infinity526

    high school does suck

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  • armybabe

    highschool sucks dick that way. even the most popular kids' friends are talking shit behind their back. thats teenagers for you bby

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  • PoisonFlowers

    Yes...highschool sucks balls. At least you'll know that the ones who don't betray you and all that crap are the real friends. It separates the good from the bad. You don't need such two faced people anyway, trust me.

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  • snavex

    If there being 2 faced, they're not worth any of your time.
    Concentrate on the friends who have stuck by you, not on the ones who don't care:)x

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  • Quetzacoatl2

    Perfectly normal. It's mostly all in your mind.

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  • mishj6

    If the way your descrbing the situation is the whole truth then I would say that there's nothing the matter with you. Teenagers like to pick on certain qualities that not everyone has. Maybe there's something about you thats different and since their teenagers, they see it as a target. Remember though their only high schoolers don't let them break you.

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  • candid

    I don't think it means that there is anything wrong with you or your personality or that you did anything wrong.

    People are often very immature in highschool and do nasty things for no reason at all, then after a few years they grow up and ask themselves why the hell they behaved that way and the things that happened in school won't even matter anymore.

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  • Judgeofbros

    have you ever thought it may be your fault?

    It's always a possibility.

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    • JoeyAnne

      i'm with him on this one.

      maybe you're the problem. they've gotten to know you, that they've learned what kinda person you are, and realized you're not so great. sorry?

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  • gopfrank12

    Yea it is normal they are all just using you for something or just being nice to you because they felt bad for you for some reason.

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  • silvermoon

    yeah you should talk to your friends and see how they think of you then if they don't think well of you ditch them and go looking for a new group it once happened to my friend all of his friends suddenly gotten it to some stupid stuff and he didnt want to do it so they started talking about him and stuff so he got rid of them and joined me and my friends

    good luck with your friends (whom ever they may be :P)

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  • ohiodreamer

    yeah its normal. i think you just need to find out who your real friends are and stick with them.

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  • dgte69

    Yes it's normal, ask some real friends about your personality so you can see what you are.

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