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Hi, I'm the typical tall and lanky guy, but whenever I'm outside, girls stare at me. I'm not being full of myself, but I consider myself cute(just the face), and also, I feel a bit insecure about my tall and skinny figure.
What exactly is happening? What are your thoughts? Thank you.
Maybe they have a jar of pickles on a high shelf and are fantasising about you finally retrieving it.
I'll confess I'm not as attractive as I used to be. I used to get stared at a lot and dated girls most guys only dream about.
I'm older now and those opportunities just don't happen for me anymore and I barely took advantage when I was a hot item for women. *kicks rocks*
anyways if they like you-strike while the iron is hot. I could've fucked 100 times more girls than I did if only I was more aggressive.
also some girls do send mixed signals. One beautiful chick who used to stare at me all the time had a bf. We went out a bit but she always put that wall up-really weird chick, why stare if you don't want to fuk the guy? women, so messed yet so desirable.
It's almost like you had a conscience and grew out of it over time... interesting.
incisive observation. yes I had more conscience and class and that could be why I didn't place a priority on sex over quality relationships.
I look back with regret however because my respect for women also prevented me from getting a lot more action.
not to mention I'd have more numbers to call on during dry spells and to pick one to marry.
all I know is that my looks were the key to opening some of the toughest locks (meaning selective women), but now I'm just a shadow of the man I once was.
the difference however is that I'm 10 times smarter than I used to be and I take no decent opportunities for granted.
you don't know what you got till it's gone.
Well, you're certainly right about one thing:
You truly are a shadow of the man you once were. But I'll let you in on a little secret...
Your looks have nothing to do with it.
in general women are much more superficial than you realize-as much as men.
sure many often settle for average or ugly guys because they learn many men are assholes so might as well get someone who treats them well
but like men, women want the hottest guy they can find and so they will overlook less attractive guys until they get more desperate
It's so weird to speak to a shallow person, because I have no reference point to understand what it is that drives people like this.
Sure, there are both men AND women who are pathetically superficial and shallow, but... you're bizarrely obsessed with looks, "getting some", how attractive someone is, etc.
I just can't relate to someone that doesn't have a grasp of psychology and relationship dynamics when talking about relationships.
There's a reason the pensive geek never had a good in-depth conversation with the marginal frat-boy.
don't get me wrong I still get checked out occasionally but usually the girls are kind of young but damn cute (like today), just saying it wasn't as good as it used to be-it was like living in a dream.
Wow, such great advice! So much understanding and maturity, I'm just falling over with admiration...
Thank you for the compliment!
In real life I actually am quite mature. This site is perfect to trololol when I feel necessary.
Well... You are probably hot. Or there's like a hole in your pants or something. xD
haha either they are attracted to you or perhaps you have an extra limb growing?
We don't see your type often and what usually passes the mind is
"Good goodness that's a tall dude."
"Wow that is so cool"
and some inappropriate things, unfortunately.
or
"Whoa he's so tall I can't do nothing with that"
"uh huh ! He is too tall!"
Some are intimidated.
some are just looking.
Some are checking you out!
some are just seeing a tall human being with a potential good personality.
The truth is, tall guys are sometimes a rarity. Its like Africans seeing snow or Chinese people seeing black people.
You are either really attractive. Maybe a bit odd so people look at you. Or just very paranoid and uncomfortable
Well they could be staring for many different reasons...
1. They might think your totally hot! A lot of girls find tall guys attractive. Being skinny is great....as long as its not grossly skinny. And you said so yourself that you have a cute face. Thats the most likely reason.
Othet reasons could include......
2. You have one of those looks where everyone thinks they know u from somewhere
3. They like or dont like your oufit
4. There is sonething abnormal about you
Because you are so young and tall and skinny but that was good, don't be shy just be confidence and make a little smile while they're looking at you : )
It's probably because they don't know you, so they are assessing your attractiveness. The first stare is just a cursory stare, where the girl is wondering if she likes what she sees. If the girl continues to stare, then she probably finds you attractive. If the girl is staring openly, then she might purposely be trying to catch your attention. Anyways, that's just my perspective as a fellow female.
Maybe they are looking at you because your looking at them or maybe it's because they find you attractive. Go with it and enjoy being lusted after!
Happens to me aswell. I was in town for a few supplies a week ago, and I kept getting stared at. There was one girl in particular that constantly stared at me. We walked past eachother about three times (It wasn't a large shopping area) and she kept staring. She went out of her way just to stare at me. Say I was in a shop and she was standing just near outside the shop, she would move her head to see in through the door to stare at me. I stared back for a brief moment, but she turned her head in a very shy manner.
I think I'm attractive on rare occasions, but overall, I don't see myself as attractive. Although it may seem like I do at times, I really don't believe I do.
Girls complain about guys staring at them, but it happens to us fellow guys aswell. I don't know if it boosts my vanity or insecurity when it happens.