Hey ladies what do you think about staring

Hey ladies I have to admit that when I see girls with curves especially large busom or real curvy hips I cant stop staring...I tried to do it without her noticing but sometimes they snag me...I dont want to be rude but for some reason my eyes tell my brain to fuck off and I usually keep staring....so what do you girls think about guys staring at you?

I hate it....creeps! 22
I love it...stare away! 8
As long as it is not too excessive or rude 41
Not when I am with someone or in a relationship 7
If the guy is hot...but weirdoes stay away! 9
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  • howaminotmyself

    It depends on the expression in their face.

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    • EccentricWeird

      >>>>:O

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      • howaminotmyself

        Stop staring at my belly Andrew.

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        • EccentricWeird

          >:|

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    • What kind of expression exactly? I guess some men look like rapists and some look playful or flirty,right?

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      • howaminotmyself

        I can read eyes pretty well. And sometimes it is flattering, especially when they blush if you catch them.

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  • Holzman_67

    staring is caring

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  • ㅤㅤㅤ

    Makes me uncomfortable. I usually just make a really ugly face and look back at them. I'm a master of distorting my face beyond belief.

    That being said, it is a confidence booster...at first. Like wow, okay, thank you kind person, for deciding that I am at least somewhat attractive for you to look at me. Thank you, I appreciate it. After a while I'd assume it'd get annoying,; THEN I start making weird faces C:

    If I were single, I wouldn't mind as much.

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    • Its funny really but when women get pissed off , it just somehow pisses me off that they take themselves so seriously....it does turn me off but now I just keep staring to piss them off more...some have even said whatbthe fuck are you looking atband depending on my mood I either ignore them or say fauck you

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  • loopoo

    If the guys attractive and doesn't do it too excessively then I don't mind. But in the past I've had like older men, some even with their wives and children do it and it's just embarrassing and gross.

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    • Figures. If a hot guy approaches a girl he is considered confident and if an ugly guy approaches a woman he is creepy....I think your brain is a loo.

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      • loopoo

        But what I usually consider hot the majority of girls I know don't agree with me.

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    • So, the action of it isn't wrong, just certain groups doing it is wrong...?

      I could make a race analogy here but I think me implying I could would be enough to convey the point.

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      • loopoo

        Okay so staring is staring, but I'm wrong if many a times when I've walked home from work I've been shouted and even followed by groups of disgusting men I can't judge because I don't find their looks or race up to my standard. Some people just 'stare' some take it too far.

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        • The topic was abut staring, nothing else and nothing more. You stated that if an attractive person does it then it is ok but not if unattractive people do it.

          I've been around and walked the street, to college, home, and so on and been shouted at in the same manner, been followed while in college by a creepy girl I somewhat knew and another girl I didn't know at all when I was in town. Regardless, it is irrelevant, the topic was staring, nothing more.

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          • loopoo

            Yeah and I stand by that, everyone would rather someone they find attractive stare at them than someone they don't. It's obvious.

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            • I'm not saying prefering it is bad, I'm saying that implying it is a problem simply due to your appearance makes it stupid. If something is wrong then it should be wrong for everyone, making something wrong only based upon the group you belong to is just ridiculous, quite like the whole black and white person water dispenser thing.

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    • Im 47 years old and I will stare at girls even in their early 20's like theres no tommorrow

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  • As a guy that has been stared at by men and women in "that" way, I'm iffy on it. I can find it flattering and uncomfortable at the same time.

    That said, I'm not one to say "Hey! You can't stare at me! How dare ye cast thee eyes on thy!?"

    People can stare if they want, atleast when it comes to me, and especially if I have worn something intended to look attractive...I can't complain about attracting the attention of others after making myself look "attractive".

    Some people will be fine about it, some people would be offended that ugly people do it (comment above and the people that agree with them), and some people will just get offended. If doing it is wrong then it should be wrong for everybody, same goes if it is ok to do. I don't think it should be like a slot machine where you have to gamble on if it's ok or not.

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    • charli.m

      "Thy" is actually synonymous with "your", not "me". "Thee" would have been more accurate in place of "ye" (though "ye" is also acceptable) and should have, itself, been replaced by the word "thine".

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      • I did originally have it that way but thought it was the other way around...My mistake was not knowing I was right the first time. Ta for informing me.

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        • charli.m

          Of course it was.

          Now write it out 100 times, or thou shalt receive a caning.

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          • If I don't, will I get detention, Miss? :(

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            • charli.m

              Redundant.

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        • ArtemesiaNoam

          I'm pleasantly surprised you took it in such a decent manner. :)
          I could definitely appreciate a mature man.

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  • iEatZombies_

    I can handle someone checking me out. I don't prefer it but I do accept it. When something more provocative, I understand it goes up a notch. But gawking, or trying to say something as an excuse to look longer, will get you shot down. I don't expect respect, but I don't tolerate disrespect.

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    • Like I said I cant help myself really....I do it ....its like a sunset over the pacific ocean or a mountain view on a beautiful spring moring or a full moon over the bay on a clear night or a starry night sky....its beautiful and everyday life has so much ugliness that I am gonna enjoy my 30 seconds of beauty.....My advice to women is ignore me Im harmless as long as I dont touch you its nothing....or if you are really fun and plucky...give me a little shake and shimmy

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  • natii_l0v3

    It depends, if i find the guy attractive and I cacth him staring then he just looks at my eyes with a sexy smirk, That gets my fire burning. But if they're staring like I my ass is a nuclear bomb It'll be weird.

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    • Is your ass like a nuclear bomb!?

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  • KeddersPrincess

    I guess it would make me a hypocrite to complain about someone starring considering...I stare.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    I don't mind if a person stares.
    Though if they stare for too long I start to feel self conscious or annoyed.

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