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So I’d describe myself as Heterosexual. That’s I fancy women and and am romantically straight and sexually attracted to women. but on occasion I like the sex side of things with a man to change it up. Is this normal or am I a perv? What do straight men think of this? Girls would you date a guy like this?
It screws your mind up, chews up your brain's grey matter, damages your dopamine response, and teaches you to derive pleasure from watching a woman you desire with another man. Just try not watching it or anything for a week or two, see if anything changes for you
They dont even mean anything. Prime example my girlfriend before she met me described herself as the same as the OP. Apparently I'm the first guy to treat her right so she forgos the notion of sleeping with other women outright.
Romance often wins more than the perfered type.
Look up the difference between romantic orientations and sexual orientations, they sometimes don’t perfectly match up. It sounds to me you could possibly be bisexual and heteroromantic.
Don’t worry about what random girls on here say about this, the right woman will accept your sexual and romantic orientations exactly as they are.
Yeah but it's not an exact science, sleep with whomever you want. I dont get why people want to put themselves into boxes.
For me it’s not so much about putting myself into a box but more so that I can understand why I have that orientation and to see if it’s a normal thing really
Correct, there’s no litmus test for orientation, you have to follow your own intuition. Labels aren’t always necessary but do bring some people comfort.
I dislike arbitrary boxes. I am a white intersex cisgendered male.
Where do I end up on the boxes hierarchy the liberal society puts stock in these days?
Slightly less "privilege" than a normal white guy?
The purpose of labels shouldn’t primarily be to assess someone’s privilege but to help them accept their identity and find similar people who they can relate to.
For instance my asexuality doesn’t really affect my privilege as most people just assume I’m a single straight person, but the label allows me to join asexual forums and talk to those who share my experiences.