Heterosexual relationship and have a gay affair

Recently in my marriage things have been going stale and I have been getting close to a guy who is amazing. I never really considered a gay relationship before, but he makes me feel really special. My wife doesn't know about the relationship we have and I kind of want to have both him and her. I know its not right what Im doing. So what should I do?

Leave wife and kids-Run away with him 48
Stay with family-Break it off with him 141
Leave it as it is, where I have both but she doesnt know 143
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  • well there are plenty of women who cheat on their husbands with other women. So why wouldn't you do it? Just leave your boring wife and enjoy all the buttfuck without thinking of consequences.

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  • eyeluvtolikpucee

    stay with the fam and have some time alone with the boys each week to do boys things.....

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  • mulanmalice

    Don't leave the person you love for someone you like.

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  • randypete

    why is it after you get married the women don't like sex ?

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  • Gravy

    Maybe talk to your wife if you love her and she loves you, oh, maybe not, shit good luck mate. but Don't stay in a loveless marriage.

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  • Avant-Garde

    This is difficult. You could divorce your wife and be with him, but there's the risk that it might not work out. Than again, life is full of risks so why not go for it? Lets say, you leave your wife now and the relationship will avoid strife as opposed to letting it your marriage drag out. I hope what I said makes sense and of course it's all up to you to make the final decision, but maybe you should talk to your lover and see what he says.

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  • Tell your kids first.

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  • robbieforgotpw

    Normal for homos to have affairs w other homos

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