Heterosexual men do need women validation whether we admit it or not

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validation from females. i've had a lot of people in my life tell me you don't need validation from women to confirm you as a human being in your own worth. yes you do. men need validation from women. men as a species need pussy. pussy and money run the world and if pussy is not validating the man of his worth, of course he is going to be bitter and have low self esteem. he may even turn to drugs and alcohol to cope with his inner pain. you can go see therapists, take psychiatric drugs, counseling, deacons you can ask everyone in the world for advice. but if you aren't getting that female validation which is pussy, you will be suicidal, drugs, alcohol or all 3 and have very low self esteem walking around saying you are a fat ugly piece of shit like me.

it is not someone for everybody. people want to paint this rosy beautiful picture saying there is someone out here for everybody, no it's not. it's false hope. it's not going to get better. i will get older, older and older and i will be 50 years old by myself. i'm the world's most unattractive man by society standards. i have nothing going for me physically, personality wise or financially. what's the point in going to backpage and getting a prostitute because they are only going to pretend to like me. that is not going to validate me and confirm my self worth of who i am as a person. they will fuck me for my money and leave me and it will be over, i don't want that. i want beautiful women to validate me for my worth. i need at least 2 or 3 women fucking me at the same time to validate that i am good looking. that i am attractive to somebody. and no this procedure cannot be done be done by average looking or unattractive women. it has to be done by fine dime piece women to validate my worth.i need at least 2 or 3 honeys with me that i can fuck in order to feel better about myself.

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  • Eric118
    8 years ago

    I am sure the op is some gay man trying to get straight men against feminist women. The gays here are posting craps lately and are doing just their routine attention seeking stuffs cause they don't have a job and very few people care about them. Try harder fagg0t!

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  • mysistersshadow
    8 years ago

    There definetely isn't some one for every one I have seen some pitiful looking people where there physical condition has obviously leaked into there personality so they aren't pleasant to look at or talk with. In many cases its not there fault how they look but lifes not fair so theres nothing anyone really can do for them.

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago

      I think it's because they hate themselves. I'm not a beauty queen, but I ain't no troll either, at least not on the the outside. It's sad that people hate themselves so much that when they find a suitable equal partner they walk right past that person, because they're too busy yearning for someone with model or movie star good looks which they themselves clearly do not possess. If more people learned to love themselves, and then sought relationships with their equals then there would be less lonely people.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Just make sure you pay those whores, otherwise their pimp will come after you. If you want someone to like you for who you are and you are in fact as ugly as you claim then find a woman who is equally ugly and she just might like you for who you are. If you can't swallow your pride and do as I say then get used to either being alone or paying for it. Multiple, random, hot women aren't gonna chase after you, that's life so get used to it.

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    • The_Creep_is_back
      8 years ago

      As a philosopher of creepiness, I think he is asking if shallow validation is better than no validation. I would maintain that he wouldn't know unless he tried both.

      What do you think - philosophically that is?

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago

        I think you have a point. I think he would better serve himself to accept and love himself as he is warts and all, then go in search of an equally warty girl like himself to love and be with instead of miserably pining for the beautiful women he'll never have because they are of course out of his league. The only way he can change this would be to become wealthy, but then he would find gold digging skanks who are beautiful on the outside, but ugly to the bone on the inside. He'd still find mindless whores, he'd just have a mortgage instead of a rental is all.

        Thanks for keeping it creepy, my friend.

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        • The_Creep_is_back
          8 years ago

          You are welcome, my friend. Your creepy philosophy was expressed beautifully.

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          • RoseIsabella
            8 years ago

            Thanks for your creepy support.

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  • IMissMary
    8 years ago

    Validation for me is seeing her Orgasm

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  • yourdeepestshame14
    8 years ago

    If you're asking whether your worldview is normal, then yes. The world is full of lonely people, and as you said, many live their whole life without ever finding a serious romantic connection--something most of us require to be a whole and happy person. It's unfortunate, but it's a truth. Too bad you're not a psychopath or a sociopath, were that the case, you wouldn't need interpersonal relationships to achieve self-validation, you'd be able to derive it solely from the self.
    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JPyeqZNu_lo

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  • Terence_the_viking
    8 years ago

    No you don't that's bullshit.

    WHIPPED much.

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  • flamer180
    8 years ago

    What kind of feminism bullshit is this?!

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  • Thorolf
    8 years ago

    Males don't need females lol.

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  • Myghoul2099
    8 years ago

    they need to cover cigarettes and vodka on my insurance plan so that i can recover from my heart breaks and find a new mommy to drain :)

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