Help with husbands fetish

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Me and my husband recently had a real heart to heart.....and I asked him if he wanted to spice things up a bit...

...he mentioned he has a fetish for my high heels, he loves me in them!

BUT he would also love to drink from them!

Ahhhh!

Now I really love him, and am considering this....its pretty harmless,

The issue is I only have Jimmy Choo and Louboutins and wonder if this is going to be ok?

How do I go about it etc without being to try hard?! At dinner?

Thank you!!!

Do I indulge 7
Do I not do it 2
Do I cook him dinner with my heels on and let him loose? 15
Do I tell Him I am open to it and let him lead? 13
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  • Tealights
    7 years ago

    Do it, but have him buy the shoes since he's going to be ruining them too.

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    • natalieledward
      7 years ago

      Really? You think that will be ok!?

      How do I do this?

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      • Tealights
        7 years ago

        I think it's fair. He wants to drink from your high heels, and I doubt they're made for that lol. So it makes sense that he buys the shoes he'll drink from, and it doesn't have to be expensive shoes, just something that looks nice on your feet.

        As for starting, just relax. This is your husband after all, you've already impressed him enough to the point of marriage, and I'm sure he seen you in a lot of embarrassing situations that no one knows about. Just ask him to lead until you feel comfortable with how his fetish works; then without telling him, you can spice it up in your own way and surprise him.

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        • natalieledward
          7 years ago

          I have done it!

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      • Ellenna
        7 years ago

        You just talk to him honestly about it! I'll bet he's much more self-conscious about his fetish than you are about being involved in it.

        If it's ok with you, say so, with any conditions you want to place on it - eg that he not ruin your best shoes. I agree he should pay for the shoes: that could be part of the turnon, the two of you going to the shop together and choosing shoes and only you two knowing what they're going to be used for!

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  • natalieledward
    7 years ago

    I consider myself lucky to have Jimmy Choos etc,

    I am privileged yes, but I have worked hard.

    I pay my way and I help others the best I can.

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  • mrbrownfinger5
    7 years ago

    First world problems right there

    I'm also calling bullshit

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    • Ellenna
      7 years ago

      Yeah definitely first world problem but why bullshit? I've come across much stranger fetishes than that, it's a very mild one in my opinion and quite common

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      • mrbrownfinger5
        7 years ago

        I'm calling bullshit that they only have Jimmy Choo and Louboutins.

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