Help me come sain???!!!

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Ok so I don't even know where to begin... I always freak out on my boyfriend everytime he leaves the house, acusing him on being around other girls, and its worse if i know he's going out to a club. I always say or your just going to go be around a bunch of girls because your friends are single or cheat on there grlfrnds or wifes.. He always tells me know that's not him and he doesn't even go around looking for grls cuz that's not his thing. I turley and honestly trust him with all my heart, but iv'e been burned so bad in the past that i cary that onto him and he tells me to stop and i dnt ever have to wry about that with him. And another thing i always do is if the neightbors have people over and there's grls there i really freak out on him. I always after the fact of everything i do feel so stupid and tell him all the time im so sorry and that i can't help it. He says no matter even if i have problems "that's wat he says all the time that i need counseling" he will always stay with me. PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO TO STOP!!!!!

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  • Sexonfire
    13 years ago

    Lol wtf learn how to spell

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  • BoredGuy
    13 years ago

    shitlipsmama knows men

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  • CarolM
    13 years ago

    find someone u can trust.

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  • Stupidlookingguy
    14 years ago

    You need to learn to trust him. If you already do like you said, fine. But what's the point of trusting him if you don't act like you do? You've to get over this gradually.

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  • jsfdnljn
    14 years ago

    that's a natural defensive action when one has been let down many times, to be less trusting. to me that sounds like something that is simply going to take time and patience.

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  • shitlipsmama
    14 years ago

    Are you confident in yourself?? If you're not, you wont be able to shake these jealous, suspicious feelings. When it comes to guys, they are most loyal to you when you are giving them exactly what they need, physically. So, provided that you are putting out on a regular basis, and fulfilling his needs there, he will have no reason to stray from you. But in order to do that in a healthy manner, you need to love yourself and get in touch with what really turns the both of you on.

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  • 1president
    14 years ago

    Been there before many times- If you love hime you have got to for the sake of the relationship take the past out of the equasion because it will ruin everything. I have been raped not once, but twice, both by people whom I thought cared for me and let me tell you right now- it haunted me and ruined my ability to function properly in any relationship. you have got to let it go. Love comes with trust if you trust him ACT LIKE IT. And you know- confidence wears so much better on females than jealousy. If you walk around like you know that he isn't going to cheat on you because you know that you are who he wants to be with- he probably won't. Be posessive without the jealousy. If he really loves you than he should make you feel like he would never do anything to hurt you like that- which in turn should give you that confidence you need to trust him. think about it...it's hard to find people that are trustworthy but if you never give someone a chance how do you know? And if you are tearing someone down like that it really puts out the "I don't trust you flag"

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  • sandmansgirl
    14 years ago

    I agree with your boyfriend...you need some counseling.

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