Help: he's falling for me and i'm taken!

He knew i had a boyfriend all the time he even saw pictures of me and my boyfriend hugging each other but he just seemed to disregard the fact that i have a boyfriend.H'es very pushy and that's what's freaking me out.

You have a boyfriend. End of discussion. Tell him that. Tell him, "I'm sorry, but I already have a boyfriend that I love very much. I only see you as a really good friend. Nothing more than that.".

If he continues to push it, and makes these unexpected visits, that could be kinda stalkerish. He probably means no harm, but I still think you have to be upfront with him. And if hes your friend, why doesn't he already know that you have a boyfriend? You should've brought that to his attention from the beginning.

I would very much appreciate it if people would stop swearing while trying to get the point across! Thank you!

So... did you meet him?

I found this one late but... it sounds like he has boundary issues. I hope you were able to resolve things with him.

All I can say is that some people build up a fantasy image of someone they know online and refuse to accept anything that interferes with that fantasy. And it sounds like this is what the man was doing...

Your suggesting that having a threesome with my those two guys will solve this?

threeeeeeeeeeeesoooooooooomeeeeeeeeeees

If the guy is traveling half of the world to see you, just give the guy a try and make out with him (if you are of legal age you can even have sex with him...)
This is America, so your boyfriend is going to cheat on you anyway and go away with the first Latino chick he sees (they are the easiest ones to pick).
If he doesn't cheat on you he will probably become a fat drunkard and take your money to get booze while leaving you and your kid to die of starvation.
That is the way American families are, totally dysfunctional.
So, if that guy is traveling all around the world to see you, enjoy his company, and then get him back in the first flight after you get tired of him. If he pisses you off, call the ICE on him.
Boyfriends become fat drunkard hubbies and you will end up hating each other anyways, while friendships are forever. (...and if those friends live in other country, way better, as they don't piss you off, or ask for money, help packing and moving, you know the drill...)
And, the last piece of advice: the worst sex is the one you missed out...

You sound very young if you can't handle this - so I'm assuming you still live at home. Hopefully you do!! Then you can tell this stalker that your parents aren't at all happy about him visiting and are making other plans for you. Tell him not to waste his time or money visiting as you won't be in town.

Tell your parents immediately, and if necessary get one of them to speak to him. Reading between the lines, this sounds like an online friend that you don't really know!! Be VERY careful - he sound a right nutter, willing to travel so far, even though you have a bf.

If he insists on coming, go away and stay with other family or friends until he is gone. I hope you have learnt a lesson, disclosing too much of yourself to all and sundry!

Good luck - get help with this!!!

You should threaten that you're gonna call the cops if hes as pushy as you say he is.

Ok no swearing, tell him if he turns up your going to ring the police and have him arrested on charges of stalking.