Help! doom right around the freaking corner :o

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Yeah this is probably it. Reaching out to strangers on a blog, I'm sinking real fast huh..

Anyways, still going to try. Help me out guys, here's the deal:

K, this sh*t started SIX months ago...I walk out of a class, and a pretty girl smiles at me for no reason. "Niiice! Pretty girl smiled at me, time to Flirt/Harass/PrepareForMaceInEyes!!" should've been my reaction, right? Instead, I just walk away, since my mind was pre-occupied with the impending semester finals...or so was my excuse for not smiling back...:/

Semester break starts, have no recollection of the smile until next semester, when I walk into her again at the cafeteria. This time, she avoids my glance, and plays the awkward card.
K, here's the thing. I've been doing this sh*t FOREVER, have NEVER kept a relationship with anyone of the fairer gender. Why? beats me..oh and it's nothing to do with sexual orientation, I'm crazy about girls. Anyhooo, the girl won't smile at me anymore, and for the very first time in my life, I felt like sh*t because of it :S

Soooo, I got tired of this repeating cycle of my never being able to smile back at girls, and ended up doing something impulsive. Impulsive as in, tried the reefer with a friend for the very first time 2 weeks back.
The high didn't get rid of her smile stuck in my head, but it did rob me of my willingness to interact with the rest of the f**king world.

Help? HELP. The guy keeps telling me that I'll be back to who I was. Will I? HELP...what should I do about the girl? And the high, has it changed me forever??

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  • lalala12345
    14 years ago

    okkayy chill out
    smile at her... say hey, if she says anything back introduce yourself etc.
    girls may seem intimidating.. but shes might sort of intimidated by you, too since she hasnt said anything to you, she probably feels embarassed so she doesnt want to do anything again
    so you have to make the first move now
    just do it! life's too short
    besides, itll be practice
    youll come across tons of other girls

    im not sure what your talking about with high.. drugs?
    not cool
    not impressive,
    probably not to her either

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  • 1hooks1
    14 years ago

    ur fucking nuts man wtf

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  • BOYracer88
    14 years ago

    just talk to her she wont bite you (probably)

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    • mjh1288
      13 years ago

      agreed

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  • wwalkingwolfw
    14 years ago

    the Bible says "where's there's no confidential talk there is a confusion of plans". how can you assume what she's thinking about you? if you like her let her know. open your silly mouth and just pour your heart out, man. if she's interested she'll want to hear everything you have to say. she'll be happy that you're talking to her. step up to the plate and go for it. i dare ya.

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  • silly_person
    14 years ago

    she feels awkward because she smiled at you and you didnt smile back..
    next time you pass her by, if she looks at you, smile at her..(but dont stare, smile if you can make eye contact with her..)

    also, if you cant get her smile off your head and the first tip doesnt work, my advise, as a girl, is go to her and tell her that..tell her you cant get her smile off your head. it would work with me..

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  • BirdIsDaWordGuy
    14 years ago

    say 'what do ya f**cking want!!??'.... oh wait thats from How NOT To Live Your Life..

    sorry, im no better with women ten you are...

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  • sek_c_b1tch
    14 years ago

    if you go up to her with a friend or someone and start chatting, the pressure will soon go away. after the first chat, chat again with a friend, then after time you will be able to talk in private.
    the worst thing is the pressure and tension. once you break the ice, it gets better within seconds. and once you have that out the way, there will be no need to get high any more, as natural highs are MUCH much better.

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  • momzthebest
    14 years ago

    explain to her why you didn't smile back. Ask her why she won't interact with you.

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