Help!!

Im an 18 year old black guy living in a small town where i am the only person that isnt white. I very rarely recieve malicious racial abuse although my colour is always commented on. I have tons of mates and am quite poular but ive never had a girlfriend. Im not i virgin as i always pull when im on holiday or on the lash in a different town but i think the reason girls wont go out with me is because of my colour. What should i do? Is this normal?

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  • Shavemeslowly

    The people you are with probably just are not used to black people.

    I was raised in a jewish white community, so I can say from the other people's perspective that most of the time it is nothing personal, they just have to be exposed to differences long enough before they can get over them.

    You likely notice that your close friends don;t really care about your race, but strangers are more likely to.

    So its not you, its their inexperience.

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    • your from one of those new york jewish neighborhoods where they block off the steets with telephone poles so no one can drive down them?

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      • Shavemeslowly

        You go the first part right, but the last few things you pulled out of your large ass I am sure...

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        • So are you hard core jewish like your parents would kill you if you brought home a christain?

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  • It sounds like you might have to move maybe people in that town are secretly racist or small minded that happens in small towns

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  • chuckck

    I grew up in a small town (pop 1000) and the reason people take note of anyone is when they appear different from everyone else, so it's no big deal, you're just seen as exotic to the rest of the people living there. There were always black people living here for example (dating way back to the 1600's), but being one individual makes you stand out - but hey, at least you're getting noticed! Here the village blacksmith was a black man, and back to the fur trading days the area had black traders, so nothing's as new as one thinks. Besides that, in truth the rest of us are all basically 'albino' Namibians from African ancestors at an earlier time that populated the rest of the planet and adapted to lower light levels - it's just hard for some people to get used to the fact we don't all look the same, and we're not all Johnson's.
    I suppose if you're looking for a mate in that small town it might be a bit of a challenge, you could go a little farther afield to a larger town where people are more confident and comfortable with themselves, and bring back a mate, I would recommend that just for your own piece of mind, or else you will have to deal with the Johnson's.
    I don't fully understand this small town either; if you've ever seen the Red Green show, you know this bunch of loons. Possum lodge is rural North America, for better or for worse. Annoying but ever present locals, Geeks and Greeks just don't quite fit in, unless we act more local (or loco?) - I'm just not good at that either. Oh well, there's no perfect anywhere, so just make the best of it!

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  • iswhatitis

    Show them your true colors and by that i dont mean skin. Cultures are different but they do mix speak up and act out. Dont move away just because u think people arent accepting make them accept you and spread some of that coco cause the best chocolate is mixed with milk.

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  • Goethe

    Wow, a bunch of prejudiced comments about people who live in small towns being racist. Good job, you liberal dickwipe.

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  • IsitAbnormal

    People in small towns are usually small, single minded... you'd be better off moving to the nearest city.

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  • coconbus

    hey dont worry, hot white girls prefer black men so your safe.

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  • Wasabi

    you* sorry spell fail

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  • Wasabi

    its not gay , i just was really horny so u wanted to do it and then u came the feel gone .. dont worry , ur fine.

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  • The racist comments here are pathetic. Anyway, obviously you are an exceptional young man who is very well liked. You are breaking a colour barrier & whether or not GFs come in time that is pretty decent.

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  • jake8128

    dont worry

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  • There are plenty of white girls who prefer black men. Just hang in there. Come across as being confidant and intelligent; NEVER act like a gangsta retard.

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  • snufflebunny

    Just show the white people that black people are the same as white peopleand maybe they will understand and give you a chance.

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  • xxsexilassxx

    i am a lass i lk ither well not yet i am 2 young lol

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  • ruleofrose

    Just have sex with all the white women. They all secretly want to.

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  • 111112222233333445071237808128

    Try to do something to impress the girls and if u cant try something carzy.

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  • chiefandy

    Chrisufc has 247 flaged abusive.

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  • Move back to the plantations, just kidding. Don't worry about it, if things get rough, report the harassment to the police.

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  • My advice, stay away from white people and stick with your "brothers."

    What you will do, get a white girlfriend and knock her up and make oreo babies with her and help wash away the white race even more then it already is.

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  • Didge_Daz

    pretty much, either move out or just dig in m8, best of luck.

    Peace jah bless

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