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I do a lot of sports like basketball,soccer,softball,football ECT. I also am apart of a musical play. well those hobbies are taking up my whole life!!!! i have a boyfriend and since i have all these hobbies i cant spend time with him.. I am not goin to quit all my hobbies now so plz give me some advice.
Invite him to your sports to watch you then after go out to eat (after you shower)that way you can do your sports and still hang out with your bf.
Do you see a future with that boyfriend and does he mean alot for you?
Are you really happy with him and can't you wish a better one?
Then dump the sports! You can sport whole your life, but never find the same boy twice!
Well, um sweetie, either dump the guy or dump some of the sports. You can't have your cake and eat it too with this one. Sorry, but it just doesn't work that way.
You can't do "everything". Either some hobbies and other activities have to go, or the boyfriend has to go. It's not fair to him that you do this to him...so...make a decision, and deal with it.
Wow. It's awesome how you have so many extracurriculars and hobbies AND a boyfriend! That's going to look great on your university application-they WANT students with a variety of activities (just leave out the boyfriend thing). XD
If I were you, I'd have a nice sit and talk with him and have a nice calendar and pen with me. Then we'd make a schedule of when we can hang out then mark it down. Personally (because I'm partly an ambitious person), I'm not going to let a boyfriend ruin all my scheduled extracurriculars/school life/hobbies because that's like ruining my future. I need to build a nice foundation for uni. But of course, since you have a bf, don't IMMERSE yourself in that stuff and completely ignore your bf. Definitely spend more time together and schedule these dates with him well. Congratulations!
pick the stuff u like least and stop doing them and use the extra time to be with ur bf like a walk in the park or a movie date
ok...i like my boyfriend more then sports...maybe if u cant handle both u need to drop one. because i cant stand not seeing my boyfriend for a long time .
I know what ur going through believe me, i play every sport possible not to mention im a cadet master sergeant in the civil air patrol, im an active search and rescue participant (FEMA qualified) and have 2 jobs (babysitting multiple families and cleaning bird cages at my neighbors house) breathe and look at your schedule try and make an organized chart of what your day to day is and try to fit him in there somewhere, if you have his phone number call him to just talk to him, invite him to your sports games and try and see if he'd like
Is there any way of getting him involved with your hobbies? Like, would he join in with the play, or join in/ watch you at matches? tbh though, you need to temper your hobbies with social stuff like hanging out with your boyfriend. Don't quit them all, just maybe cut down on the time you spend on them.
Well if you have a boyfriend you should spend time with him. But ask yourself this what do you like more him or sports? Maybe you could quit doing a few of them. But if he likes you he should understand that you like your hobbies. That's like all I can say. Hope I helped a little. =]