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hello guys, i really need your help on something really important. so i've been dating this guy for the past 19 months, i really love him and trust him and everything and he love me and trust me too, but ever since we met i felt as if he has a kinda weird relationship with his ex-crush, he used to love this girl since he was small and he loved her for many many many years, long story short it didn't happen between them, and she hurt him alot. the weird thing is that they are still friends they still hang out and all... i personally don't think it's normal and even though i didn't i tried my best to cope with the situation, but 1 month ago he woke up angry and sad i asked whats wrong he sad he had a dream i asked him what it was he said he didnt wanna talk about it, after 2 weeks i found out what the dream was it was a dream about him and his ex kissing and hugging and apparantly she was an angel in his dream, but they were in hell. i dont really care about dreams but somehow i cant stop thinking about the whole thing, his side of the story is : he didnt tell me about the dream because he was afraid ill be angry and start a fight, and he's still friends with her because they've been friends ever since they were kids and she's one of his only childhood friends... is it normal ?

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  • Allistalla
    11 years ago

    I like your title

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  • ccjigsaw
    12 years ago

    If she ever told him "I want you back" he'd jump into her arms. Your the person he's using to move on. I hate to be so brutally honest, but from my outside pointof view, this is what I see

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Maybe he knew that if he did kiss her his life would be hell :o)

    Honestly, don't worry unnecessarily. I went out with my best friend when I was very young but as I've grown up I don't think of him like that anymore. In fact, the more I see him and his messed up life, I realise that we would never have worked out. I suspect he's the same.

    Don't argue about her coz you give her too much importance.

    Laugh with him every day and he will want to stay with you forever!!

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  • abominus566
    12 years ago

    tryasking him about it, he will be honest eith you if he loves you like you say, thats the only thing i can think of

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  • sassafrassi
    12 years ago

    I think he's hiding his feelings for her. I personally only dream of things that are bothering me or that I think about a lot. He needs to get over her and focus more on you.

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    • noone348
      12 years ago

      thank you for your honest reply :D

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  • coolio75650932
    12 years ago

    ummmmmmmmmm no its not normal wait yes it is anf THANKS ALOT FOR TELLING ME THIS LOLOOLOLOLOLOLOLOL

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