He wont let me come!!!?????

As the title says,

I am a twenty three year old female, i have been with him for a year.
EVERY time we have sex, I am almost there....then splat.

He's not a minute man. But This happens EVERY time, and Im starting to get pissed after sex.

I am thinking about looking elsewhere for good sex, but Im not one to be unfaithful. But come on I have sex every day for a year, and dont get off?

I dont think he cares, he never asks if I got off. And I wont fake it.... I actually want to get off and not encourage the way he's doing it now!

It affects the relationship, we are edgy, especially me! HELP

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  • Alaskaraven

    ARE YOU MUTE? Then learn sign language, stup. TELL him, or continue to 'get pissed off'....

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  • emilyf

    You have two options.
    1: Tell him exactly how you feel. Start off in a nice way, and if he starts to be a dick get a little rough with him. Do that for two reasons. To get your point across, and it may lead to great make-up-sex.

    2. Keep having sex and getting ALMOST completely satisfied and then go to the bathroom and give YOURSELF some sexual pleasure. Just right after sex, go to the bathroom and do that.

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  • slackjawedyokel

    get on top so you can control the motion.make him lay there while you grind into him and have your orgasm and then he can have his.

    or after he comes make him eat the cream pie so you can come.

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  • DaddYCaT4MommaCaT18to30

    FIRST OF ALL, GOING SLOWER WHEN HAVING
    SEX CAN ACTUALLY MAKE YOU MORE STIMULATED
    AND MAKE YOU MORE HORNY ..

    SECOND OF ALL, IT SOUNDS LIKE HE CARES
    JUST FOR HIM SELF AND NOT YOU..

    THIRD OF ALL, HE SHOULD STIMULATE YOU WITH
    HIS FINGERS , MAKE SURE HE IS USING LUBRICATION , SUCH AS K-Y GEL..

    FOURTH OF ALL, TRY CONCENTRATING ON YOUR CL*TORIS FOR STIMULATION AND THE INSIDE AND OUTSIDE OF YOUR VAGINA

    FIFTH OF ALL, TRY STARTING AND STOPING
    GO SLOWLY DOWN THERE , THEN, REPEAT THE
    SAME THING OVER AGAIN..

    SIXTH OF ALL, THAT GUY NEEDS DUMPED CAUSE
    HE IS JUST WANTING YOU FOR HIM SELF
    HE SHOULD SHOW CARING TOWARDS YOU..

    SEVENTH OF ALL , MAKE SURE YOUR USING
    A CONDOM IF YOU HAVE ALOT OF SEX PARTNERS , THERE IS AIDS , AND STD'S OUT THERE ..

    EIGHTH OF ALL , IF YOU NEED SEX EVERY
    DAY , YOU COULD BE BIPOLAR..

    NINETH OF ALL, THERE IS MORE TO A RELATIONSHIP THAN JUST SEX , WHAT ABOUT
    CUDDLING , AFFECTION , KISSING , HUGS..

    TENTH OF ALL, WE ALL NEED TO PRAISE
    JESUS AND NOT BE SO GULLIBLE AS TO
    FOLLOW THE FOOT STEPS OF THE DEVIL..

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