He wants to have a 3-some

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We have talked about having a 3 some since we started dating- now its been 2 yrs. and we still have not had one. I dont mind having one but I am nervous that it will change evrything- since I have insecurity issues. But, it is something that he has always wanted to do. I have a close friend that I have been friends with for 16 yrs. now and I would not mind doing it with her but I am a little nervous about the outcome to it. Not that he would run off with her but about how i will react when i see him f**king someone else besides me. I have mixed emotions about it and I am unsure to what i should do.... ? Please- any ideas?

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  • Spirituality
    8 years ago

    Do it with someone you both don't know,not with your best friend

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  • greeneyedgirl
    16 years ago

    Don't mix threesomes with love

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    • timemaster86
      15 years ago

      mixing the two, im a guy and id feel uncomfortable incase the girl liked them more than me, lol just tell him its not what you want

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  • KittyLaVeaux
    16 years ago

    Be secure with your desires. If this is really a turn on FOR YOU then do it. Don't just do it to appease him or because it seems to you that this is the trendy thing for couples to do nowadays. If you aren't comfortable with it, and he is, then it's always going to be a point of contention with you, and maybe you need someone who is on your wavelength. Open relationships only work if BOTH of you are open to the concept of one.

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    do it, they are hotttttttttttt

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    This is a common problem. Girls now days are more open about their sexuality and the second they tell their boyfriend that they might be a little bi curious the guy just jumps right into wanting a 3 some. This isnt just him mostly every guy would ask for the same thing so dont hold it against him. You sound like a very insecure girl and I dont know if this is going to work out for you if you do it. Your relationship with your close friend could be damaged and you may never get over the whole thing. So only do this if YOU feel like you really want it (not just for your boyfriend) and if you without a doubt know you can do it without any problems afterwords.

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  • [Old Memory]
    16 years ago

    Simple. Keep it to talk and don't 'go the whole hog'

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