He loves me... he loves me not...

This has been killing me for months now and I am handing it over to you guys for judgement.

I have a few casual FWBs (2 in particular) and one of them might have more feelings for me than as an FWB...

I have been seeing him since November. We've shared a lot about ourselves but we've both agreed that we want nothing but a FWB relationship. Despite this, he has told his friends that we are dating and admitted to discussing our relationship with his friends and therapist. After every sexual encounter he asks if I have let go of my other partners and doesn't seem too happy when I have said "no". Because why?

One night, he got super fucking drunk and told me that he seriously wants me to drop my other partner and dates and be with him. Then he told me he loved me and a bunch of reasons as to why. I dismissed it because he was drunk.

I don't believe he is in any other relationship as he told me he wasn't, has expressed dissatisfaction when I have told him "I can't trust you as far as I can throw you and I can't even pick you up" and he gets kind of pissed when I joke about him banging other women. He has told me "you can't pursue a relationship when you have someone on the side" ad nauseum so either he's only seeing me or he can't practice what he preaches.

Fast forward to now after encounters under similar circumstances, he has made it clear to me that if I want anything but physical relations with him, I have to drop my other partners. He's become distant and more and more dissatisfied with our relationship. He's acting the way he did when we first became FWBs, just talking about sex. He shows and feels visible disdain for my FWB.

I'd also like to add that he tends to talk about "us" like we're going to be together in the future. He's made jokes about how I won't be talking shit when he makes me his wife, how it will be difficult for us to be married and conduct a family when I behave in a certain way and says things like "I refuse to argue with my future wife" when I get pissed off at him.

Now that I type this out, it seems obvious that I'm a cold bitch but honestly, every time I ask him directly he'll either say "I like you", "Maybe something could happen in the future", "My job keeps me too busy" but more often than not... "I can't get over the fact that you're seeing other people.". Totally different answers when he's drunk ("I love you, ok? You got me to admit it, I love you! *Tangent about why he can't properly express his feelings here*") but, once again, I don't take drunk people seriously.

So, is it normal community, I admit... I might be in love with him and I want to form a good, solid opinion of how he might feel about me or how you males would feel in his circumstances or what the hell ever. Brutal honesty, politeness, I don't care. I want to get a second opinion before I decide what to do next.