He loves anal

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Ok...firstly I'd rather have advice from women on this because I know guys will just be like omg go for it :P

So theres this guy I wanna bang and he is gorgeoooous, I'm sooo sexually attracted to him. Hes come over a couple times and I've given him head but we haven't had sex yet. I've decided I wanna start screwing him (because who can pass up on someone that sexy) but the problem is, he is obsessed with my bum. He's told me anal sex is his "thing" but tbh, I don't really wanna do that outside a relationship? I feel like I don't have a right to deny him what he needs but, anal sex is kinda personal. He doesnt even view anal as proper sex, he calls it "just a bit of bum fun" but I think it's more personal than sex, I mean this website is anonymous so lets be real, theres always at least a trace of poo on the condom and I don't really want that with a guy I don't really know. What should I do? He is so fucking hot and I wanna start banging him but I just dunno how I feel about the whole anal sex angle...ladies..would you bum a guy outside a relationship? If he was hot as hell?

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  • LF4sDLX
    12 years ago

    Fuck Yeah

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    • cigs
      11 years ago

      ?why did you say that

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    You're a nasty slut anyways what's wrong with a little more nastiness

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  • girrrl
    13 years ago

    No I wouldn't. I agree with you. I've done anal once in my life and it was with the only guy I've ever been in love with. I think at least for the girl it's hard to be comfortable doing that so being in a relationship makes it a bit better.

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  • zxy
    13 years ago

    You wanna but a slut and "bang" a guy you just met what just it matter if his dick gets covered in your shit.

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  • analsexonly
    7 years ago

    Anal sex is just better sex. Yes, there is more intimacy involved, in part because of the potential for pain if he doesn't know what he's doing and in part because of other functions of the asshole and the potential for it being dirty if you aren't careful. But if you do everything right, anal sex is so much better for men and women both that it's just worth doing it instead of vaginal. Don't worry about needing to have vaginal first or be in a relationship with someone—just decide if they're someone you trust to have anal sex with you and take the necessary precautions for you both to enjoy it. If you think you will, then go for it.

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  • quitit
    11 years ago

    What's anal sex??

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  • randypete
    11 years ago

    Fuck Yeah go for it you will love it use lots of lube

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  • cigs
    11 years ago

    no

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  • pay2play
    12 years ago

    You can't have it all your way. I don't get it you suck his cock but don't want him to bang your bum. Tell him snaps okay as long as pussy fuck come first that's the deal. If your shallow enough to suck him off because he's a looker then the rest is just as easy

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Well this decision is all up to you but I agree. Anal sex is better saved for the man you end up in a relationship with.

    Just tell him you want to try it sometime in the future but not right now. He should respect that. Do not however tell him that you want to save it for a relationship because he could ask you put just so that he can get some anal.

    Oor you can tell him if he wants in ur bum, then you get to go in his first xD That will either get an agreement out of it or he won't ask you to do anal for awhile lol.

    But overall it's up to you. If you want to let him in there but are worried about embarrassing things that can happen during anal, just get some drinks in you to calm you down and relax you. Also make sure he uses plenty of lube and doesn't just shove it right in there.

    If he knows how to do anal right then it will feel good once the slight pain goes away. (it's momentary).

    Also have him play with your vag/clit or you play with it while he slides in your back end, it will take your mind off of any pain or discomfort and will intensify the good feeling of it.

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