He is 16, i am 28...

ok, so here it is.... I met him when he was 14. I didn't know how young he was until we had already flirted and hit it off. I flat out told him that we could only be friends.

That was two almost 3 years ago.

Now his family is letting me stay in their home. And he is at it again. now he is 16 and that is legal in my state. I really want to be with him in a sexual way. help?

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Comments ( 40 )
  • 2tfx

    The boy is not ready for a mature relation yet. give him four more years if you really care about him.

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  • No. Legal or not this is still wrong. He has barely gone through puberty. You two are at very different stages in life. Why can't you just find a guy closer to your own age? Not normal!

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    • iEatZombies_

      Where is your account? Why can't I click on you? Did you cancel your account?! Were you banned?!
      .... No, No, No, No, NOOOOOOO! You sonuvabitch, you get back here!!! DX
      I just wanted to smell your hair, it's not weird!
      *Sigh....* They always run away.

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      • CoraCook

        Seems somebody disagrees with you...

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        • You need to be buttsluttled.

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          • CoraCook

            Awww... <3

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        • iEatZombies_

          I guess they didn't like his hair. =/

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    • Shimmers

      Maybe she likes younger. That's her choice and age is just a number. If you like young guys thats AWESOME, especially considering the fact that they aren't going to nag you for certain shit as much as older guys.

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    • mountain-man82

      I completely agree with both of your comments. Stay away from the 16 yr old.

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  • Parky_Parker

    Considering that his family is nice enough to let you stay in their home, don't you think it's disrespectful to fuck their 16 year-old son? You're 28, you should know better.

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  • Gspyder

    What the hell do you even have in common with a 16 year old? Let him have a normal teenage dating life and you go find someone that you couldn't have given birth to.

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    • shuggy-chan

      Wtf how many peggo 12 year olds do u know?

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  • palepunk

    Why in the hell are you staying at his parents' house? You are a TWENTY EIGHT YEAR OLD.

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  • If this were a guy posting this everyone would be outraged.....

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    • iEatZombies_

      People are outraged.
      What I find strange is if he were 18 everyone would be fine. 17, everyone would still be upset. Like people think something magical happens on your 18th birthday, all the sudden in one day you know better or something.

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    • Couman

      Are you sure it isn't?

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      • True. I just assume it is a lady. It is wrong either way.

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        • suzett

          I am female.

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          • How dare you!

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  • dust

    It's morally icky.

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  • satman

    What a load of B-S, just go for big time and make a man of him,get the sex out of the way and everybody's happy, ....... but don't tell his mun if you want to make it to 29

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  • themanfrom1975

    I know if I was 16 and a 28 year old woman wanted to have sex with me i'd be all over it. Is it creepy on her part...extremely...something has to be wrong with her to want to do a kid like that. But the kid himself...I don't think he's going to be traumatized..he'll just consider himself lucky.

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  • Tommythecat.

    But he won't know what to do with it?!

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  • River710

    Is it normal? No not particularly, but I don't see anything wrong with is, so long as hes legal and he consents I say go for it.

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  • Unimportant

    A 16 year old is old enough to speak his mind. Does he want you? If so, it is a consensual relationship. Enjoy.

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  • green_boogers

    You are the woman of his fantasies. You are also a hot attractive cougar that just can't be satisfied any other way. You must fuck him, or you both will feel unfulfilled for the rest of your lives.

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  • Bobblahblah

    Society says no (except in certain parts of the world) so you'd have to grow a thick skin if out in public showing affection. Otherwise, I don't see any damage being done. Do you want him to fall in love with you and act like a lovesick teenager, cos that's virtually guaranteed if you do the deed.

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  • suzett

    Yes I am female, the reason I am staying at their home is because i am in college and saving up money.

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    • noid

      Would his parents with whom you are staying approve of such a relationship?

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  • Mr-Myrtos

    I was reading all posts and I found only Anglo-Saxon false puritanism and nothing else.
    Were I come from nobody would make a tragedy out of this.
    No one cared to ask if there is real love among you. That's what is important.

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  • LizardSkin

    As long as you are both legal do whatever you want. Don't listen to all these bobble-heads. Love can't and shouldn't be constrained by biological age.

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  • DoctorAngelDust

    I wouldn't recommend that at all, simply due to the fact that he is not an adult, no matter how mature he acts. Souring relations with him could sour relations with his family so unless his family approves, I'd stay way the hell away from his penis.

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  • Fretful

    No. No no no. No no no no no. No no. No.

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  • latinguy23

    Im 23 however I can make you fell better just send me a private

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  • richmanjoe

    The un-normal thing is for you to be 28 years old and living in someone else's house.

    The problem with older women and 16 year old boys is that the women lose their minds in this situation. They do things they would never do with another adult, such as skip birth control.

    Before you bang the boy, maybe you should join the couple? That may relieve you of your infatuation. When you hear them going at it, strip down to nothing and put a robe or towel on, then go into their room and say, "Sorry, I heard you. Can I join you?" They are either going to throw you out or let you in.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork

    Give him mind-blowing Blowjobs until he's 17, then have protected sex (or use birth control pills), and then when he's 18 move to a different house together - start a family and live happily ever after - but first the Blowjobs.

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  • Theexpandable1

    Couldn't you settle for at least 18-21 dude?.. Do you have a good career? I find the family letting you sleep there really weird, maybe just using you.. If you have a good career

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  • fullhouse

    Hehe I met a girl 13 yr old when I was 27 and we had lots of things in common. But I decided it wasn't right n I still think so. They're too young n we as the 'wiser' should not do anything that'll destroy their youth, They don't need us for that. Stay away cuz it's just wrong

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  • David718

    this is cute. yassss

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  • anti-hero

    Male or female op?

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