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I have big perky boobs that previous partners have always loved. My current boyfriend asks me to wear bra's around the house because he doesn't want me to "DESEXUALISE" my boobs by having them out all the time. Is this normal? Does he have a point?
My wife has 36D boobs and never wears a bra, she much prefers the freedom and enjoys the looks she gets when we are out walking. Do what you feeling comfortable doing, if that means being braless then so be it and explain to your b/f he must take your wishes into account.
Personally I prefer how women look in bras and bras themselves are sexy. I don't nescessarily enjoy wearing them all the time but hey....
His desexualization comment makes sense to me. It's akin to a nudist being naked all the time. You become desensitized to the naked body and its no longer a big deal.
I'm guessing he loves your boobs and wants to reveal them by removing your bra during sexual contact. As opposed to see a couple of udders all the time.
Big boobs are made to shown off and everyone enjoy. My mom shows her boobs to all mans in neighborhood
Honestly, unless you're in to that, he shouldn't tell you what to do about lifestyle choices. My dad always told me that if you wouldn't let your best friend say it to you, you shouldn't let your boyfriend say it to you
Personally I never get tired of seeing a great pair of tits. If he gets sick of them find some new way to turn him on.
I wouldn't say its normal but its not bad.
It actually might indicate he's looking for this to be a long lasting relationship. If he's concerned about this then he expects to see them a lot.
To be honest this is probably something you could just talk him about. That's going to resolve your situation faster rather than all of us trying to guess...
If you have a great set of perky boobs, there should not have a bra covering them up. Hot boobs are made to be seen and shown off. Please show them off to everyone.