He changed his mind so quickly?

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So this guy started talking to me over texts and we never met in person and within the first 2 days of texting constantly he was really into talking to me being really flirty and said he liked me a lot.. This was way to soon for me to start liking someone that fast.

We hung out the next night and had sex and the next day when we were texting he was very uninterested and wouldn't continue the conversation and canceled plans to hangout.

Of corse I like him now and I don't want to bother him by texting him and telling him all of this because he might think it's weird..

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  • Fall_leaves
    10 years ago | pl

    After sex a lot of guys lose interest. Of course he's going to be sweet and say he likes you, he didn't want to lose his chances of sleeping with you. If sex is ever on the table, a guy isn't going to be an asshole until after he gets laid.

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  • thegypsysailor
    10 years ago

    Seems he got what he wanted from you and is moving on. It's too bad you still have feelings for him, because, unless he just wants to use you for sex, I doubt he'll be back. Sounds like a real jerk, you figure out the rest.

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  • tripw7
    10 years ago

    Hey, he obviously was looking for someone different. Everyone has their favorites. Give this one a pass.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Maybe he liked the idea of who he thought you were more than the reality?

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  • noid
    10 years ago

    Too soon to like him so you met him and had sex. Hmmm...

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    • (s)aint
      10 years ago

      It's never too soon to have sex with someone! But you can't be so fucking naive that you don't see this one coming.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Chut up!!

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        • (s)aint
          10 years ago

          Hahahhahaa, make me!

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            I will.

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      • noid
        10 years ago

        No, not that naive.

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    • shuggy-chan
      10 years ago

      I know right, sounds more like the guy bulldozed his way to get what he wanted, and then hit it and quit it.

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  • Sog
    10 years ago

    He wasn't ever really interested in a relationship and just wanted to see if he could push the right buttons to get you into bed.

    Apparently he succeeded.

    Hopefully now you understand why people say that you should wait a few weeks or so before you have sex if you're really interested in someone.

    Write this one off as lessons learned and take it slower next time.

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  • Gspyder
    10 years ago

    It's called hit it n quit it. He used you for sex:/ not all guys are like that but a lot of them are, I'm sorry that happened.

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