Having trouble getting in the mood

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Ive been with my boyfriend for 4 months now and the sex is good. I had my first orgasm wit him. but, im starting to not really want it anymore. i still love him heaps and want to be around him, and hes still attractive in my eyes but just kinda over the sex. i dont always get pleasure, (ive only had 3 orgasms) but i ge to the point when im going to have one all the time but my partner cums by then..... im not angry at all bout him doing that cause i get satisfyed enough not to be angry cause we go for a while....

i dont know wat is the matter wit me caue i do want it just cant be bothered, i thnk im starting to think wats the point....

but i eally want to give it to him cause we have a great emotional connection when we do it...

wat would help me wanting it more without taking pills???
please help

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  • WayOutThere
    14 years ago

    There is nothing wrong with you. The problem is that, in these 4 months, he's only been able to give you 3 orgasms. That's why you're not enjoying the sex, and not getting in the mood.

    You should be having orgasms every time. Multiple orgasms, ideally.

    If he orgasms before you climax (known as premature ejaculation), then he needs to learn to last longer. There are techniques that men can learn. Otherwise, he should use his hand or mouth to bring you to climax, after he comes. Or, he should give it another try, after a short break. He probably also needs to learn some foreplay.

    Leaving you unsatisfied is unacceptable, in my opinion.

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