Having thoughts of killing loved ones...

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My boyfriend will suddenly stop on the spot and go quiet for a few seconds when i asked him to tell me whats up it took him forever to tell me, hes explained that he suddenly has images of cutting up family members and his ex for no reason its not like they have upset him! im so confused is this normal?? he also wakes up in sweats at night after really bad dreams.. i said to him is it scaring you he said no im not worried becoz i know ill never act on it... what shall i do he wants children would i be able to trust him? i love him so much! please help someone

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  • kia106
    14 years ago

    he needs to go to church seriously and have someone pray for him

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    • faisoly
      14 years ago

      A Church would made him more criminal

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  • ChaoticBunny
    9 years ago

    Maybe he had an abusive childhood or even schizophrenia. I'd suggest he sees a therapist about it. I hope he doesn't act out on his thoughts. I hope everything will be ok.

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  • floridaoh
    12 years ago

    I am going through the same thing. Let me know if you sign back on here an we we can try to help each other.

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  • imnotnormalnot
    13 years ago

    hey this guy seems normal but not only that he seems like a keeper.I say go for it marry him.

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  • Lollypop
    14 years ago

    Yes i think he needs to go and get advice on it but his scared people wont understand and lock him up for being a nut case! its horrible :(

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  • obsessed92
    14 years ago

    Have you ever thought that he might be schizophrenic?

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  • obsessed92
    14 years ago

    Whenever someone REALLY ticks me off, I'll imagine different scenarios of getting revenge, including killing them in some way. I'll even imagine it if the one I'm mad at is a loved one. But what your boyfriend is thinking, I believe is on a whole other level. I wouldn't say that it's normal. Yeah, he might need a little therapy or counseling, just to see what's up in his mind, you know? I think you could grow to trust him around kids and stuff if he got help though.

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  • unrcgnzble
    14 years ago

    i think you should suggest to him that he see a therapist, just so that you and he knows why it's happening, regardless of whether it's normal or not. that would probably be the best way to determine whether he would make a good father. some people just have very strange thoughts - it could be nothing. my guess is he may suffer from some kind of depression, but that's just a guess.

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  • eggdee
    13 years ago

    i have the same breath smell as my bf why?

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