Having "confidence" to attract women is just an illusion

when a guy approaches a woman it's either she finds you attractive or she doesn't. confidence doesn't mean anything. i've heard so many of these pick up artists talking about confidence and this personality shit. none of that stuff works if you don't have the look behind your game. your looks are your game. without looks you have no game. you can have the most expensive shoes, nice designer clothes, you can get ripped and athletic. but if your face is ugly like my face it doesn't matter. if you aren't their physical type you aren't gonna get the woman. you can't change your height i'm too short, i'm only 5'7. that's short for an american man. a man in america should at least be 5'10. i already know that my dick isn't big enough and i have nothing going for me looks wise. even if i had a high paying job it wouldn't matter because i would still be a ugly mothafucka and i won't get anybody. it's not about how you feel about yourself, it's what these broads think about you. women should take the initiative and approach men you are interested in.

us men are getting tired of always being the ones to get turned down a million times. i'm tried of going out here and not having any female talk to me. i'm a god damn ghost. you're only a ghost if you're unattractive to women. us men get tired of trying to "run game" to get a woman. game doesn't work. game is created by the pua artists to give you false hope. you can tell a woman what she wants to hear all day but if you're not attractive they don't want to hear it. if an attractive guy were to give a woman compliments she would be flattered. but if an ugly guy were to give a woman compliments she would consider him to be a creep.

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Comments ( 11 )
  • thegypsysailor

    Confidence beats looks 80% to 20. Women LIKE confident men, not cocky, but confident. It's sexy.
    Good looks with nothing behind them are only interesting to young and shallow girls, not women.

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  • Short4Words

    You're wrong. You just can't accept it. I'm fucking 5'6, like I told you. I attract enough women.

    If you want to throw this pity party and think that everything is fixed and you have no chance then you right ahead, but it's only true in your head. Nowhere else.

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  • dindu_nuffin

    Looks are very important, but they are not everything.

    Plenty of good looking people have a tough time getting ladies. For example that Elliot Rogers guy who murdered some people, he was actually a good looking guy and he lived a somewhat prestigious lifestyle. But because he was mentally sick and had low self esteem, none of his valuable natural assets were put to use.

    Similarly, there are many somewhat ugly or just average looking guys who have tremendous success with girls. Some are powerful leaders or rich guys, or well connected socially or just naturally have charisma.

    I personally feel that you only need to be "decent" looking (no major disabilities, not a midget, not a smelly homeless person) to get your foot in the door for some women to give you a chance. But then its all up to you to do the rest of the heavy lifting.

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  • Jesus again? Yea, you are 5'7 and you can't get pussy for shit. We got it the first 50 times.

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  • KingTermite

    Whether you think you can or think you can't you're right.

    I admit that I have some serious advantages (tall, good looking, dress well, highly paid, can make conversation with anyone) but I've gone through stages where my confidence was low and guess what... everything I have going for me didn't help at all. Without the confidence you have no game whatsoever.

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  • Murun

    Confident OP? You don't sound it!!
    Quote: "i'm too short, i'm only 5'7. that's short for an american man. a man in america should at least be 5'10. i already know that my dick isn't big enough and i have nothing going for me looks wise. even if i had a high paying job it wouldn't matter because i would still be a ugly mothafucka and i won't get anybody."

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  • 53739

    dude I agree with you, and how come the guy always has to impress the girl, not the other way around. society brainwashes girls from a young age to behave this way and decent guys have to pay the price.

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  • Captain_Flatulitis

    There really is no way to successfully predict the courtship process. You can hedge your bets by being financially successful, dressing well, good hygiene, and physical fitness.

    None of those things guarantee anything. It just puts the odds more in your favor. Women are very intuitive, they will be able to sense your self doubt and will as sure as you are here complaining about it, reject you. It's basic human nature in general, even heterosexual guys don't hang around with other heterosexual guys with this "whoa is me" attitude. Mindless self pity doesn't foster anything for anyone.

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  • mypenisinyourmouth

    If any guy approaches me and compliments me, I would thank him but I wouldn't find it flattering. It would just make me feel uneasy because I know that most people use a compliment as an eyeblind for an ulterior motive.
    (most) People don't compliment another person "just because".

    I can tell you that better looking guys would have a higher success rate, however, I can also tell you that good looking guys tend to be more pushy and obnoxious too.

    You are making up a whole lot of excuses to make you feel better about the fact that you hate yourself. If the only thing you aim for is companionship, then put on some makeup, wear high heels and remember: it's okay to be gay

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  • NathanScot

    Boo-hoo mate,grow some fucking balls.Cher'

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  • TightInfantAsshole

    Maybe you should try fucking a sweet little infant in its tight asshole instead?

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