Having a hard time finding a mate without bad baggage

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I’m dating women, mostly in their 40s, and I know we all have our baggage. I’m ok with some baggage and hope someone will be ok with my bit of minor baggage. Problem is I keep meeting women who seem to have a deep seated hatred of men. It’s not obvious at first, but over a little time it comes out. They don’t direct it at me and seem to think I’m some kind of exception to the “men are bad” rule. Still, that’s the kind of baggage I’d like to avoid. Are most middle age women like this, or have I just had a bad run of luck??

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    There are also plenty of men who hate women too in the world.

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  • mauzi
    5 years ago

    That's pretty much the mentality of every moron these days, regardless of sex. "all men are this" / "all women are that" / "everyone i disagree with is a piece of shit". anyway, where are you meeting them?

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  • LornaMae
    5 years ago

    I've got my 18 suitcases all packed up and ready to move in with you! ♡

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    • leggs91200
      5 years ago

      Is he going to have to move to the basement or attic while you take over the rest of the house?

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      • LornaMae
        5 years ago

        Oh no! Emotional baggage only takes up imaginary space! Duh! Haha

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        • leggs91200
          5 years ago

          Ahh alright. Yeah cause when you said 18 suitcases, my first thought was, "Not many airlines will allow that much."
          But that is okay. Is it possible that...

          Wait - EIGHTEEN suitcases of baggage?! WOW! That is worse than my ex!

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          • LornaMae
            5 years ago

            Meh! It's not much, really. Well, not at my age! It's an even 2 per people who've scarred me and people I've hurt.

            Buuuut I left all those at the last airport I went through, so on the surface it seems I'm baggage-free!! I mean, I obviously still have the carry-on and the laptop... LOL

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  • JD777
    5 years ago

    I dated about the same age women a few years ago. I met some of those too, but was patient and met someone totally cool. Be patient. I suppose women have to deal with this, too.

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  • leggs91200
    5 years ago

    Is there such a thing as "good" baggage?

    But yeah, by the time we are in our 40's, we have had enough of people's bullshit. We have been through the ringer called "dating" and all that.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    Here's a secret. Widows don't have any baggage. All their baggage got buried at the cemetery when their spouses died. Warning, they know this and are usually interested in widowers only.

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