Have you ever wanted to apologize for something you did years ago?

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In 2005 I was in jr high I had a good female friend looking back on it now she was my best friend. She stood up for me on my first day she introduced me to the friends I ended up making she even helped me get a girlfriend by helping with my confidence. Our friendship was brief because my mother moved constantly so with in the span of a year 2006 by the end of spring we moved away. Now I was mad very angry I mentioned it but I acted like I wasn't bothered but I lashed out in different ways towards different people and I said some fucked up things to my friend. I don't remember the things I full detail but I ended it by saying I wouldn't miss her the last few days before I left she was clearly pissed at me I wanted to say sorry but I didn't. I wish that I could find her and say I'm sorry is this normal? chances are she most likely forgot about me.

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  • Mammal-lover
    4 years ago

    Regret is a bitch. I wish I told my father to go to hell and saved my cat from freezing to death. I was to scared of him though.

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    • leggs91200
      4 years ago

      It is easy to look back and wish we had stood up for ourselves. During the heat if a battle though, it is not so easy.

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    • aBoyFromIndia
      4 years ago

      I also want to say the same thing to my parents. Good thing is that I still have time to say it. I have calculated in my mind when and how to execute it. They have literally made my life a living hell. Every single day passes with a thousand chants of God's name. He is my real father, the Almighty. These mortal ones are such a disappointment.

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    • LornaMae
      4 years ago

      Scared of your father or your cat?

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      • Mammal-lover
        4 years ago

        My father

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  • bigbudchonga
    4 years ago

    She probably still remembers you. Add her on Facebook; I think it would mean a lot to her if you say sorry.

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  • raisinbran
    4 years ago

    There's something I did in 1992 I'm still really ashamed of.

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    • bigbudchonga
      4 years ago

      What was it?

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  • Cliche1234
    4 years ago

    No. I shouldn't apologize for standing up for myself because people tried to pick up a fight and looked down on me. Even if I said mean things because of it, they fucking deserved it. No regret whatsoever.

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    • aBoyFromIndia
      4 years ago

      I like it brother. That's how it should be. Head high and walk quick.

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  • ellnell
    4 years ago

    No but i've wanted people who hurt me to apologize even years later and give me an explanation as to why they could be so mean. I've learned since then that closure is only found within though. People who hurt you often does not care especially if it was calculated, and people you've hurt often moves on and would rather not hear from someone who hurt them again especially not when that much time have passed.
    Make up for it by being good to your current friends instead. It's never healthy to live in the past.

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    • [Old Memory]
      4 years ago

      Honestly I feel the same way.

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  • Inkmaster
    4 years ago

    I still regret stuff that I did in elementary school. I wish I could apologize to some of those kids.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    4 years ago

    You should definitely try to find her and explain all this to her.

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  • Handyman
    4 years ago

    a Girl nearly invited me to go further, and I did not believe she meant it the way I thought it was.

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  • leggs91200
    4 years ago

    Teenage angst caused us to say and do things that were uncalled for.
    At this point, at least try to connect and apologize. No one apologizes for something that happened years ago unless they truly mean it.

    This was back probably over 30 years when I was a kid but there were a couple kids I had beat up for no reason and though I have no clue about their names, I wish I could apologize.

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